Your most valuable lesson

Discussion in 'Trading' started by John9999, Jun 5, 2018.

  1. Discovering that it is "how I want to trade" Vs. finding the "Holy Grail".

    I have had many friends on ET actually share with me how they trade and they trade rather profitably may I say. It just was not my style. I have been trusted over the years with several specific trading systems but I have learned to ask myself "Can I do this"?

    Its kinda ironic...I trade to make money but its not only the money that I seek.

    ES
     
    #41     Jun 9, 2018
  2. John9999

    John9999

    #42     Jun 10, 2018
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  3. treeman

    treeman

    Be positive in life, but pessimistic on your next trade.
     
    #43     Jun 10, 2018
  4. rybe

    rybe

    Meditation has to be mine.

    I never saw the evil come out of myself like when I lost money. It manifested into me become a more calm and understanding person though. It's almost like losing some money was the best thing that ever happened to me.

    Having sound practices with trading is all good and well but if your mind isn't right then good luck navigating the chaos.

    Great question I have enjoyed reading all of the responses
     
    #44     Jun 12, 2018
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  5. rybe

    rybe

    Honest question. Does talking more ever benefit you? I feel like you should always be listening. Talking strokes our egos and makes us irrational.
     
    #45     Jun 12, 2018
  6. rybe

    rybe

    This can be split between mental and applied.

    Mental:
    • Avoid quick rich strategies that have more hope than edge.
    • Never do a trade to make back money lost.
    • Never do a trade with "house money", all money is yours.
    • Never trade under funded. Your stops will be too low.
    • Take losses when necessary and move on.
    • Take winners when necessary and move on.
    Applied:
    • Only allocate funds toward strategies that make money and avoid those that do not.
    • Size your trades to the size of your account and your risk tolerance.
    These are the two points that require work and dedication. If you're sound with your strategy and the principles that go along with it then all the mental points should be calmed.
     
    #46     Jun 12, 2018
  7. jinxu

    jinxu

    Don't think so. The more I talk the more dumb I sound most times. My brain doesn't multitask well. I cannot think and talk at the same time. A lot of people like to talk. But I doubt they are doing some hard core thinking at the same time.

    Furthermore. Reading a book has a higher data transfer rate then talking when measuring in number of words you can read per minute vs say per minute.

    Furthermore. I've found people on the internet forum have always given much better advice then people I know in real life. Trick it to figure out who to listen to and who to ignore.
     
    #47     Jun 12, 2018
  8. It's okay to be wrong. (numerous small losses/ a few big gains). Still haven't learnt this yet.
     
    #48     Jun 12, 2018
  9. themickey

    themickey

    I think listening to others is a must, however I think talking is also a must, just imagine if no-one on ET wanted to talk.
    Many many times I've posted on ET and kind of cringed at my own comments, but such is life, we need to explore with our comments, talking brings feed back and a sharing of experiences.
     
    #49     Jun 12, 2018
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  10. maxinger

    maxinger


    that's interesting.
    for some, listening to others is a must.
    for me, listening to others is a must-not.
     
    #50     Jun 12, 2018