Why careful? I don't have yet but I would bring them up with values and a moral mindset. I would educate them to think and judge for themselves and to embrace their own career and acquire skills. I would trust them and they would know they could come to me for help no matter whether they fucked up or not. Above all I would choose to spend plenty of time with my children. Having children is a responsibility and effort aside the privileges.
Mate, how about you first learn to carefully read what others are saying before you further embarrass yourself. I never supported anyone conning or misleading others. Never. In fact any reasonably intelligent person should come to the opposite conclusion after reading all my posts in totality. I said those men are stupid who do not do their home work before they supposedly commit for a life time. I have known tons of professional traders in various cities who got married to escorts or hookers and started a family. They were then surprised later on that they ended up with a selfish wife. Wow, surprise surprise. What else can I say. Oh yes, everyone gets what they want to get out of life. There are people even on this site, you want to lose money trading. And there are guys who want to live a volatile and risky marriage life. Well, then they should not be surprised that they get what they signed up for. There are of course always exceptions to norms but why would anyone want to bet on exceptions. I dont, at least not when it comes to marriage and life long commitments. I will wait for your response but after that most likely put you on ignore. I do not find value conversing with people who either intentionally or unintentionally do not want to listen to others carefully and hence most of the time don't get the point. Don't take it personally, it will just save ourselves time and headaches
Oh yes didn't know that having sex with a woman nowadays would void the man any rights of "figuring out" whether the woman is all right or not and leave her if she really has ill intentions. LOL Sex is still an indication that the man has "bought the goods" still? LOL And yes of course all men who got conned are all stupid and did not do their homework. No, "smart" men who did their homework never get conned? LOL Well then by the same token, if the man rapes the woman, then I guess it's the woman's fault to be too weak then because she never worked out? LOL It wouldn't be the man's fault right? All those women who joined the army and were trained in combat fighting never get raped? I mean if it's always the victim's fault according to you. Are you telling me a woman who has a black belt in Judo and wins in numerous fight competitions but can't have the strength to fight off a man who's forcing himself on her? Then that woman deserves to be raped. Word of advice: It's ALWAYS the perpetrator that's at fault, NEVER the victim. This is why we have criminal law system and it ALWAYS punishes whoever instigated the crime, not the victim of that crime. If it's the man's fault for raping the woman, then equally it's the woman's fault for conning the man. She might not be breaking the "law" for duping the man in marrying her but she is still in the wrong morally.
Oh yes those women who got conned by men all did their homework? LOL And you are discriminating against escorts and hookers now? What makes you think they make selfish wives? Now you are just going all over the place, comparing duped marriage to trading? LOL Nobody is intentionally trying to dupe and misguide you in trading while the gold-diggers intentionally are. You got shut down!! by 2 lines!! LOL
I have never been conned by a woman regarding relationships, never been in a relationship I later on felt like a victim. Perhaps you have more experience in that department, I can't say. I never said the victim is at fault, you are not reading carefully but after they got married are stupid. I would even go further, men who invite strangers into their homes/hotels, leave valuables lying around and then later on have them stolen are not at fault, but they are stupid. Makes more sense now? Sorry I was not explicit enough.
my reply in red: Oh yes those women who got conned by men all did their homework? LOL And you are discriminating against escorts and hookers now? What makes you think they make selfish wives? No, the exact same applies to women. Who claimed otherwise? What makes a hooker/escort a selfish person? Seriously? Lol, do I REALLY need to explain? How about an utter disregard for her entire family members, a total and utter disrespect for her parents who gave her birth? An utter disregard for her own body and psychological well-being all in the pursuit of her selfish desire for money. You are kidding me with this question right? Now you are just going all over the place, comparing duped marriage to trading? LOL Nobody is intentionally trying to dupe and misguide you in trading while the gold-diggers intentionally are. You are again not reading carefully at all. I brought up examples where people engage in stupid and risky activities and are later on surprised they got the exact results they were actually indirectly begging for. Goodness. Are we speaking different languages?
By being a hooker or an escort? LOL People become hookers/escorts for variety of reasons; sometimes out of necessity like Fantine in Les Mis? I know she's a fictional character but I am sure that reflected many of the women's situation especially at that time. And not all hookers/escorts are bad. Some of them became heroes saving their own country and many times sacrificing themselves. Your narrow-minded and discriminatory views about those women who were in that profession is not correct. Trading is the wrong example to bring up. That's all I am saying.
This personal attack is relevant because...? Fine given that they MIGHT BE imprudent but they still don't deserve what they got. That's all I was saying.
Just to clarify. Asia is huge and I did not mean Japan, Hong Kong, etc, which are developed countries. I meant countries like Thailand, Cambodia, Laos, Vietnam, Kazakhstan, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, Iran, Nepal, etc.