As soon as a woman mentions she has "mental illness"...I did not go on another date with her regardless of her honesty and politics (Conservative, Liberal, Independent, or didn't care to vote). I've had friends tell me that my stance of not dating mentally ill women was "cruel". I reply, it's no different than my refusal to not date a woman who was "obese", refusal to date a woman who was a "heavy drinker of hard liquor", refusal to date a woman who lived her life as if it was dependent upon who sat in the Oval Office, and I never slept with a woman who shaves her pussy. I have been with someone who had cancer...she had no hair. I was ok with that. Yet, if I had to rank who were the most unhappy...the women who were very opinionated regardless of their political beliefs. Today, I have two teenagers and one young adult from the same woman, I have no regrets about the above "dating rules" when I dated. P.S. Army girls are the horniest especially during war. It was as if they weren't sure if there would be a tomorrow. Also, they are the most sane and calculated. wrbtrader