I would say that guys who are 50,still live with their parents,unemployed,400 pounds,bald,hairy,and collect comic books,get the most girls.
"First you get the money. Then you get the power. Then you get the women." Tony Montana, Scarface hitting homeruns requires stepping up to the plate. swing away my friends! swing away!
No one gets women, they simply don't make sense. When you think you understand them, then they got you.
For me it was luck, pure and simple. Not that attaining means understanding. Never claimed to, never will!