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On the hair pulling and 50 shades: I've been amazed at the women I've met with rape fantasies. They don't want to be raped in real life, but do want the experience with someone safe. I think it is something primal in women, being possessed totally.
My take on this play violence fantasy is some of us have this self destuct urge within us. No different from traders who blow up big time, they keep pushing the limits until the inevitable blow up happens. I think bondage sex stuff is people with this self destruct behaviour. I may be wrong, but that's my take on it. I'm not attracted to violence in any form. If my woman doesn't want sex I can't get it up. I'm turned on by her being turned on by me. I don't want to take advantage of her, for me that's a turnoff.
I used to have all kinds. Now, I like normal stuff. Innocent girls with big lips who smoke. Can't be thin lips or old. Big boobs. High heels. Big hips, big bum, thick. Thin and fit physique. Younger (19-25ish). Some milfs are nice too. I prefer white girls. Oh ya, and women who know HOW TO DRESS! Business casual can be so hot. Light or heavy make-up on girls with natural beauty. Great hair (jet black or light blonde. Curls are great). GREAT SKIN is such a turn on. That peaches and cream silky smooth complexion is one of the sexiest features i look for. Goth/emo etc
More BIG areola and nipples! Dark nipples. The darker the better. Something really feminine about a woman with light skin and dark nipples This is gunna sound gross, but a vagina that's big and meaty. Sorta swollen looking. Not the rail-thin, prepubescent vj's some girls have. A waxed vagina. No hair. Big clit. Squirters. Footwear - thigh high boots, stilettos, big heels. None of the 1/2 inch pumps. Those are a blight on humanity. Librarian glasses. Hot nerds. Booty shorts. Teases. The list goes on and on.