'So I'm just wondering what the mentality of this forum is.' - one-upsmanship - search for 'the holy grail' - scolding that 'there is no holy grail' - bragging that it is easy - complaining that it is impossible - avoidence of the elephant in the room, problem gambling - 'get the last word' flame wars - tired knee jerk wisecracks and cliches with lame smiley emotcons