Quote from Loki: Little Update. Turns out that at the last moment she did not want to sign the prenup. Because you wanted her to clearly know that what was yours was yours, and she could not depend on your for support? Um, what if she a mother of your children and not college educated. Should she sign the prenupt? And, even though marriage breakups are usually caused by both parties? Question. What if you were burned over 50% of your body. and you wife had a prenupt that prevented you from touching her money, and she instead left you inster of ensuring you got the best medical care with her money If you had a daughter or little sister that you dearly loved and were close, and you thought the world of her... But she had little money, and her well-to-do husband forced her to sign a prenuptial. Is she as bad as this woman who refused your prenuptial? Is there only something wrong with a woman not signing a prenuptial, as long as she is not your mother, longterm neighbor, good friend, aunt, sister, niece, grandmother, or wife of your best friend? Is it that the women you are related to or friends are selfless, and all the other women are selfish, like your ex-wife? What if she is a kideny match and you desparately need a kidney, and refuses to give you one. Would you think she was being selfish, in the way that you were now? Would you give HER a kidney or make her sign a receipt for it first? What if you were a pauper, marrying a woman who had rich parents, and she made YOU sign a prenuptial? Nowdays for most men marriage is a bad bad deal no matter what. No, for most SELFISH people such as yourself, marriage is a bad deal. Especially for the wife of a selfish person. Married men outlive unmarried men. In fact, they found elderly men with SISTERS outlived elderly men without. Married men historically out-earn single men. The reality is, a reasonably UNselfish and UNself-centered man finds a good marriage as the best thing in the world. For men with some maturity, they realize that marriage is not like Al Bundy, complaining about the woman he married and feeling like he is trapped and a financial drain. Maybe you will understand better, when you are 72 and utterly alone. Again: http://www.nomarriage.com/ no, that is: www.NoCluelessGuys.com
Thanks but I am lucky enough to have my own little fund. Stay away from marriage and things will be fine.
Traderzones, Not sure if you have an idea of what you are talking about. You say: Question. What if you were burned over 50% of your body. and you wife had a prenupt that prevented you from touching her money, and she instead left you inster of ensuring you got the best medical care with her money. I might get burned and that is the most likely scenario, everything else is fantasy. I have more money, do you hear me ? IIIII have more money NOT her. And MUCH more money. That's why I want the prenup, understand ? YOU WRITE: If you had a daughter or little sister and you thought the world of her... I don't have a daughter, if I want a kid I would adopt one since I don't need to leave a "legacy" and I would take care of my kids and I would be responsible. The reason why I am single and I want to stay single is because I only have to take care of one person, me. I have a sister and I already told her...you look ok but you are not a supermodel and men won't pay your bills. You will have to pay yours, she went to medical school and is now a dentist. Now she can take care of herself, no men needed. YOU WRITE: What if you were a pauper, marrying a woman who had rich parents, and she made YOU sign a prenuptial? I would sign it immediately. I had nothing and now I have something. It would be wrong to be greedy and expecting 1/2 when I had nothing to start with. YOU WRITE: No, for most SELFISH people such as yourself, marriage is a bad deal. It is a good deal for poor men. If you have $omething going on for yourself marriage will affect it. If you are poor marriage is great. and YOU WRITE some more: live longer if you are married ? Says who and who cares, it is how you live not how long you live. Be 72 and alone ? The fact that you have a family it does not mean that they will take care of you once you are old. You keep asking what if... let's talk about what is ok ? I am wealthy and I am well. and I am a man. If you take a moment to read the ENTIRE thread BEFORE biting me, you would realize that for a man there is no single benefit in being married today. If there is one just tell me what it is. I am all ears and open to other ideas if they make sense. We are all different so what might work for you might not work for me and viceversa, but if we talk in general terms just tell me ONE good reason to marry.
Absolutely agree with Loki's views ! I know from experience that most hot girls are experts at spending/demanding (through gifts, dinners, etc) your money. It is obvious. If this is the case, why then should a rich man attach himself to just one hot girl, assuming that looks are very important to you.. and to me they are.. Better spend money on several beautiful women
Look is very important not only to you to every man. It is not about being shallow it is just how men are and that what it comes down to: Why marry ? You bring your money to the table, women their look. I am cutting and pasting a message from another thread. "Marriage is an outdated failed contractural agreement that was promoted by the state via the church to create stability in society that the rich can game. As long as the elite know society is entering these bogus agreements, the random variations of people's actions become more predictable because of the obligations that come with such agreements. The rich can now begin orchestrating wars or whatever they want to keep them preoccupied as money really has no value outside of tangible assets." -- Covertibility