You can get software on the net that, when you allow people to connect to your computer, traps them and allows you to control their computer. Essentially, when someone else's computer connects with yours, it has to pass through an authentication process. During this process there are a few different ways that you can gain crucial information that allows you to gain control of their computer. Go to www.astalavista.com and read up on it!!! But if you're a newbie to this I'd suggest that you keep your hands on the physical connection and pull it if you think anything's going wrong:-D CYA!!!