A quick suck of your dick may be sex for you but for most normal folk to 'have sex' means 'to fuck' (copulate).
OK, let's put this in the proper perspective. You are walking down the street and you see a hooker. The hooker is an undercover cop though. She comes up to you and says "are you looking for a date"? You say sure honey, I will give you 100 dollars if you have a couple of drinks with me. In that scenario are you going to jail? No, I don't think so. Now replace the drinks with "blowjob". Are you going to jail?. Yes you are and for what reason? Offering to pay for SEX!!!! End of story. edit: Or to put in another way. The orafice you choose to place your dick does not change the act. It is still SEX!!
Me too... Not reading sincerity or integrity. I'll bet he's on that client list. Would a good friend say this in the same interview? "He'll still always be my friend ... I don't want to come on and say he's a good man because no one likes him now." That is not the definition of friendship I know. Sounds like a stock pick, instead.