NO thats wrong... deny, deny, deny!!!! never admit anything. always have an emergency fund, just for you. the last thing my ex did before we split was clean out the joint savings & checking accounts. she coulndt get into the corp acct, which really pissed her off - in turn put a big smile on my face. you are gonna get vaginamony payments, child support, most of the bills and few if any of the assets - and oh yeah, both the lawyers bills, which in some cashes eventually exceeds the combatants total aggregate net worth. its smart to have some dough stashed, but never tell her, even when Mr. Willy is doing the thinking. and remember, DENY, DENY, DENY!
Why even get married? hookers are cheaper and less vindictive, and if you want to spread your seed, go to sperm bank and impregnate thousands of woman like you were Genghis Khan. Marriage is a grift, and men are the mark. Why pay alimony? You don't buy oats for a dead horse? If you are thinking of getting married remeber this: YOU ARE PAYING 50% OF EVERYTHING YOU MAKE AND HAVE EARNED FOR THE TEMPORARY USE OF A VAGINA! Who are the real hookers?
I think that certain people are more naturally cut out for marriage and many others are not. I know some people who love the domestic bliss of wife,1.5 kids and white picket fence and you can see that they are suited for that lifestyle. There wife is truely an asset in all spheres of life. If a person who doesn't have that personality (who likes travel/hookers/flings), then marriage for that person would seem like some sort of punishment. They want to feel free, but would resent the other partner for taking that freedom away. These type of people would put a different weighting on the things that make marriage/committed relationship good. If your personality has both parts equally, do you commit to one or the other lifestyle for life or do you both? (assuming you found a partner who was accepting of that lifestyle).
in case of divorce do this. Go to the options market, futures, forex, you name it... and blow everything + marging... if she´s gonna make you poor, you can bring her down with you...
nah, the cure is worse than the disease. and don't forget, she's still the mother of your kids (yep, for better or worse :eek: ), so just gotta think abou them and suck-it-up. jj