Well, women come in a wide variety of types, but yeah, as a group, they tend not to be well-off as men overall. No need to debate why, there's a vast range of theories and blame to go around. However, I do believe that the majority of differences between men and women comes down to reproduction and the mating game. Despite our "civilized" and socialized selves, the primal animal and survival instincts are strong within us. While the desire may be the same, what it takes for a woman to successfully pass on a single copy of her genes is completely different than it takes for a guy to do so. Up until very recently, and still true in a large portion of the world, women are very vulnerable and dependent for large portions of their lives when they're pregnant and have young kids. Having a mate that's got resources, power, protection, dedication and commitment to her is vitally important. The subconcious traits that turn women on and "attracts" her communicate a lot of these cues across. Having a certain level of resources (money, food, shelter, protection, education, etc), will better guarantee the survival of her kids than living in scarcity. When you're pregnant with 2-3 kids hanging off you, it's darn difficult to go work a decent job to provide those things for your family. The quality of education of the US's public schools have been dropping tremendously compared Europe and Asia. To really educate your kids well, it's gonna cost you some serious dough. For a guy on the other hand, to pass on a copy of his genes is darn easy. Just spread your seed around to as many women as possible and that's the best strategy. Hey, I'm at that age where a chic AND her mom are simply smokin' HOT! Threesomes here we go !!!
hey guys...just read thru the posts and some answers are just...awesome. I understand, that it is a bit difficult to seduce women in their best ages, when they want to settle down and you cannot, or do not want to offer them a safe environment for raising a family. First thing that comes into my mind: do you really want a girl always being angry with you bc she suggests you to be a "player"? If not, why don´t you try to get younger chicks? Second thing: Like in trading, when something goes wrong IT´S ALWAYS YOUR FAULT!! Think about it: what is your frame? what kind of women do you want to meet? If you change your frame just to get laid, you are lost and will be unhappy in the end. When talking to women, do you explain your job in a shy or proud mood? Girls can smell your fear and know, when you have no selfconfidence concerning the things you love to do. They think: why da heck is he stuttering? seems he´s into fishy business... When telling them, what you do, talk to them like you were an accountant or something like that: you are making a good living, got a normal job but it´s not so important for this conversation so do the phaseshift and talk about something else. By the way, mate...if you want to get to know more about seducing and meeting women, visit www.fastseduction.com This link changed my perspective, bc one can handle the dating game like the trading game: cut your losses and let the winners run
When a girlfriend learns that I have money she immediately calls a meeting of the mother / sister / girlfriends to decide what she is going to do with the money. My best move is to tell the girls that I'm broke. Then I can trade in peace.
The best women I've ever had in my life are the women that I meet when I was poor & struggling. All the women I've meet when I had money NEVER lasted.
a word of advice from an old trader: DO NOT buy chicks expensive gifts right away. you always have to outdo yourself with the next one. it becomes brutal, speaking from experience. surf
Marry a poor girl. If you get a rich bitch, you will spend your life trying to make her happy with material things. If the money goes she will go too. A poor girl is your best friend. You start with nothing and build it together. If the money was to leave she will stick around because you never forget your roots. Instead a DB purses and all that fancy shit, she enjoys holding hands, getting 99 cent ice creams, watching the sunset.
not necessarily. there are many rich girls that are sick of material things, and a multitude of poor girls who will kill to get ahead. this is not theory, its fact. surf