Might see how small his equipment is, unless hes so fat he can't even see it over the belly buldge. Either way we can't blame her for wanting the lights out. Shes making the best of the situation. Kudos to her.
hahaha have your laughs. Maybe for one hitter the lights off is an insult but not a long time girlfriend. Careful big bad moderator you cant compete with a college kid in anything besides a bank statement. I"m in my prime, i could make your wife or gf's head spin. I'll start the my dick is bigger than yours thread later. Anyway, have you ever been with a skinny girl that thinks shes too fat to wear a bikini. Seriously 5'5'' 110lbs. It is not only annoying to hear the complaints but frustrating when you want to go out to the pool. If your good looking and you have money it doesn't matter what you do for a living. Most women won't even know what a daytrader or private equity manager is.. Now if they for some reason are turned off by your occupation which is pretty hard to believe since women date drug dealers, mafioso, and the like consider it a "i'm really not interested in you."
You have a lot to learn man. First off, your girlfriend doesn't want the lights on during sex right? It's either one of three things; she thinks that sex in general is dirty, she thinks of herself as being dirty (or just unattractive), or (more likely) you are simply not very pleasant to look at during intercourse. She has emotional issues if it's one of the first two. It's not the lights thing or looking in the mirror wearing a bikini that is causing them, it is a result of them. Any kind of weird emotional imbalances or issues is reason enough to run, but before you grab your 501's, colla' popped Dickie's shirt, and Corona hat to run out the door, you should ask her if it really is just you and whether or not she finds you repulsive during sex. That would probably clear up a lot of other questions too... Have you ever seen a 6'2" 115 lb. former beauty pageant winner that didn't complain about her hips or thighs? Women are crazy. They say some of the stupidest shit you've ever heard when it comes to making reference to their own appearance. It's just what they do. Ever watched Jerry Springer? 450 lb. woman walks on stage wearing a size 3 'baby tee' with spandex pants and yells, "F*ck y'all. I'm hot as shit an Ahh no it. All a yoos wanna git wit dis, don' even try an play..." And as far as your statement about being attractive and wealthy... It's obvious you haven't been going after women in their late 20's or 30's. See, women have this thing they call a 'Biological Clock'. When it starts ticking faster, they get frantic. No more going out for a good time... NO, No, no... Now it's all a desperate search to find the 'perfect guy'... "Who is this perfect guy?" I dunno, but most women can tell you in 30 seconds or less who isn't... "Is he the handsome guy by the bar, or perhaps the athletic one talking to the waitress?" ("that dirty slut.") Wrong, it's whichever guy she thinks has the best swimmers in his Tapioca Man Pudding... "Which one is that?" Well I'm not too sure either, but she sure as hell thinks she knows... "Is he tall or short, skinny or fat?" Trick question, it seems he's always "not short, but not too tall either; he's not too skinny, but definitely not fat"... "What does he do for a living? Is the perfect man a scumbag lawyer, a professional gambler, maybe a stock trader?" Wrong again, it's Brad Pitt... "But actor wasn't even on the list...?" Silly rabbit... Didn't we already establish that women are crazy?
Biological Clock? Word! i dated better women before i proposed to my wife - men also have to be careful as they are more likely to get married a certain times vs others. when chicks' clocks go off, they are on a mission to get married and have babies. better watch out! i have a beautiful friend who only dates rich guys and she is dying to get married. she has no money of her own, but is a really intelligent EE. here is a typical quote "i would rather own one $2,000 purse than ten $200 purses." my thoughts: "$2,000 for a purse, you're nuts - hey wait, $200 for a purse, you're nuts." she drove a BWM, but since it was a few years old, she bought a new Acura. i drive a 1993 honda accord. she has no savings. she is in debt. she spends more than she makes. in short, she is a smoking hot to look at, but a shoppaholic psycho bitch. i have enough moeny to retire, no debt, F&C properties, etc, but i probably cant retire if i buy $2,000 purses & a new ride every 2 years. see ya!
Hmmm...I think some of these comments are so clueless. Maybe most of you are in your 20s unlike me. I can tell you the girls who experience a desperation about a biological clock have grown up helping to care for their younger siblings. I am a third born of three and feel having children takes my money, my time, my freedom not to mention the emotional drain of someone always wanting something from you and the pressure of providing. I might be better off if I had to help a younger sibling growing up but I am the youngest: the pain, but getting better! Your psychology is developed so early in life and it never changes after age 4. http://www.birthorderplus.com/birthorder/five.htm
the woman that i detailed is 35 yo. basically, since she is a high-maintenance whiner and attention-whore, her looks & body are her trading capital, and the clock is running! her expiration date could hit at anytime - big firm breats eventually become long utters. she spends a ton of money on customes - errr, clothes! the baby clock can go off at anytime, but i think there is a loneliness clock too... that might be around middle age, 50-ish, when a single woman realizes that men with money and "game" can date younger women, so why mess with "day old fruit." you buy the bananas at a discount price, bring them home, but when you get up in the morning, its spoiled and untouchable. same thing with many women who have been on the market to long. so, women at this stage of life realize its only getting worse and they dont have enough dough to "really" support themselves well. no money, no talent, no looks - aaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrr! (buzzer going off). so these are the ones that marry the 55 yo carpenters, custodians with pensions, etc. their only other option is to try and land a guy 65+yo (aged) widower, and treat him good to sucker him into supporting her. i dont date beyond my waist size - 37 at the present time. thats been a darn good rule of thumb and helps me to keep going to the gym too. im pretty close to 36"... my next date will be with a little hottie, im sure she is under 30. we have nothing in common