Oh shit! I'm busted. Every other guido has a knock off Rolex, and doesn't have the first damn clue what a Chronoswiss timepiece is. I never said I came up wit it. But I have done it quite a few times, and the man that did come up with it is a damn genius in my book. Oh, and quit making racial slurs you pothead.
Hey look, not everyone goes out to meet mrs. wifey. The easiest way to get laid is to go and BS and have fun. Noone wants to hear or see the truth, this is America. I mean how many times do you hear girls say & claim "I don't care about money" and "I just want a nice guy with a sense of humor". Look, if the b*tch finds it that important what you do, she does not even deserve the respect of you being truthful to her. I don't claim to be a player nor do I try to be. It's just not me, (although my female friends will not believe me). But when I go out and feel like I need to get laid or get #s for potential laters, I have to put on a front. Girls don't want nice guys, so I play up to what they want, some asshole personality, mixed with indifference & arrogance. If it's the materialistic b*tch, I play up to that story, usually more out of spite toward golddigging whores and to see how long I can fleece the B*tch. Although almost every girl in NYC takes your profession into account more than anything else. I'm not looking for a soulmate, even if they are. It's very very tough to find a female that is for real, let alone be attracted to her. Most of them lie & pretend and put on fronts just like men do. So f**k it, give them the lack of respect they deserve. Tell her you're a doctor, an IBanker, a sports agent, upcoming boxer (I easily get away with that one), a head of Merrill trading desk, owner of a hedge fund, real estate mogul, whatever the f**k you can make fly. Fireman, police officer and military seem to fly with a lot but I never bother with those, they would see through me in an instant. Gotta be comfortable with your story. Look if the b*tch instantly labels you based on what you do for a living, whether it is of a purely financial factor or of some superficial crap along the likes of "ooohhh, firemen are HOT", then she is full of sh*t and deserves to be fed bullsh*t. A female that is for real and is of good genuine unjudgemental character won't even care about what you do that much. She does not want to see what you "job" is on the financial scale, she would want to see your passion. That's a keeper. Someone told me once that a big difference between USA afterwork bars and Europe is that everyone in USA tries to talk about their job while in Europe they try to talk about everything else but their job.
No not a knockoff Rolex, real Rolexes. No Chronoswiss, but one or two Movados. Moneyclips galore, though. Earings, rings and brand new cellies as well. See, most people tend to worry more about image than the real thing.
still costing me... she remarried, but insisted i continue to pay vaginamony along with the child support. she banks the support, i pay for everything for children except food on top of support. my previous ex-wifey post was a joke - i was faithful while marrried, but dude people change over a decade or two... i have been thinking that if you were a successful trader for awhile, got divorced and then hit a bad patch with high support payments; dude, that would be Fugly. we play probabilities, so with 2/3rds of marriages ending in divorce, there's no edge. i will never remarry again, in fact its best to date chicas with dinero. once you go thru a divorce, then you see who you were married too, so all the b.s. about telling the truth is applicable to about 1% of the women out there. if you poll 100 guys here who went through a divorce, you'll see. we went through mediation and split stuff right down the middle and i pay what her lawyre said i would if we had gone to court. i do not know of ONE single case that went to court w/ attys that ended with the couple on good terms/ even so, if any guy here is thinking of ending marriage, better get to an atty ASAP. marriage is a legal contract - you're screwed! :eek:
if you r a good trader, impress them with your money; if u r not, it would be difficult no matter what u say.
Hydro, I got a good friend who is just like you - same views and attitudes. Good stuff. He can't hold down a girl for more than 3 weeks, but the guy gets laid more than anyone I know. I've done that "player" stuff, going out, one night stands, different girl every other week... it just doesn't do anything for me anymore, I don't get any personal satisfaction from it. I guess it just isn't me. Hell, I don't want to meet a future wife, what I do is try to meet quality people - I'm selective as hell. No BS comes out of my mouth and I expect the same. If she's worthless and full of herself - she ain't even getting a look from me, no matter how hot she may be. Looks are great but if the chick is dumb as fuck and isn't up to my personal standards, I ain't going there. Well maybe if I'm really wasted...
while we are on the subject. Say a women's personality is perfect. You love everything about her but she is one of those girls that has smoking body but has to have sex with the lights off and is uncomfortable in a bikini. What about girls that never say lets have sex, meaning you the guy have to initiate or you won't get any? Do you stay with her? All this shit comes into play, and there is always a trade off with women. For me if she doesn't like the lights on during sex or if she is uncomfortable with a bikini on thats an instant see ya later. What do you guys think?