This is intolerable

Discussion in 'Psychology' started by agras01, Feb 10, 2004.

  1. if you have positive expectancy, then this is a true statement.. if you do not, no amount of self esteem will alter the outcome.. positive expectancy comes from spending alot of time with a particular setup/strategy.. knowing where your targets/stops should be.. having good psychology while important, isnt a shortcut for doing the work..

    reminds me of those Holiday Inn Express commercials..

    ::::market tanking like a bowling ball tied to an anchor:::

    (HI guest in confident tone) "I think we can go long 1000 cars right here.." :::hits the buy button::

    (newbie trader) "Ok! Im in too.. hey, what are you some kind of market wizard or something?.."

    (HI guest) "No, but i did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night."

    -qwik
     
    #31     Feb 11, 2004
  2. agras01

    agras01

    For me swing trade works better because I get in with small possition and I add higger.
    That way risk is minimum, potential bigger, confidence up because the market starts to reward me.

    In daytrading I can not add up, I got to be all in and all out or scall out. Trends in different timeframes are in conflict, as HarryTrader mention. Many times I end doing the opposite of what originally wanted to do. It doesnt forgive me for wrong trades, drains my energy, match more emotional, comm is a killer.
    Internet conection, Broker server, speed add problems.

    All I am saying it is a totally different game that is hard for me to master. I envy the ones who do.

    I might continue to do it either paper trading or going for pocket money. I am concern though that the time frame conflicts will confuse me

    Any body has similar problems?

    Agras
     
    #32     Feb 11, 2004
  3. Here here.... for me the magic number is 3....anymore than that and I am making butter. My absolute best days (daytrading that is) have been catching one great move and letting it ride all day.
     
    #33     Feb 11, 2004
  4. this is not a easy game most fail. most guys on this thread might not be making a living daytrading.
     
    #34     Feb 11, 2004
  5. Stratcat

    Stratcat

    That last post was totally unhelpful. It isn't a competition as to who has lost the most. Also £1,500 is a lot more to someone with nothing than £150,000 is to a billionaire so the figures are irrelevant.

    Mate, 14 weeks is nothing, it really isn't I know people who traded for 9 months to a year and very nearly got sacked. Now they're earning incredible amounts of money. To start of with, the money is irrelevant. If you can find a way that works more often than not you will be profitable. Then it's just a case of upping your size as you go along. Some people don't like to up their size, but it is not a psychological proposition, you do it when you can afford it and you have the confidence of a track record that is profitable over time. If you trade 10 lots until you have £5,000 of profit then trade 15 lots until you have £10,000, etc. Build it up like this and you will never wipe out, and soon you'll be clipping 500 lots and trying to make £30,000 on a good day. If you're not prepared to do this, go and get a milk round. Every trader's goal should be to be able to afford to trade massive size (massive profit) that is the whole point of the game and the reason neither of us are a milkman.

    I'm not sure how much of this job is natural and how much can be taught, God knows I'm no natural at it. I can tell you though that I have seen many people struggle for a long time only to turn things around and become very big traders, (I mean millions of pounds of net profit each year). Don't give up yet, give it at least another 3 years.

    Concentrate on these things:

    1. Find a method that you can define which gives you consistent results. This is so important. I would rather be a guy who makes £100 a week than a guy who makes £5000 one week and loses £3000 the next. If you are consistently profitable and you know why then you have the secret, the rest is a matter of more size over time.

    2. Forget about the money. When you are thinking about the money you are not trading properly. Focus on the method at all times it's the only thing that matters. Also when you find a way of being consistent you can grow and grow, so £500 today will look like 5p in 10 months time.

    3. What is the line of least resistance? How strong is my market relative to others? which way is it likely to go? You will always have an opinion of this, therefore you have a trade (long or short?)

    4. Remember that technicals are very crap. Yes they can be used in trading (I use them), but ask yourself this, if technicals work 75% of the time then I would clean up, so they obviously don't work that often. If they did trading would be easy. Now ask yourself if you are comfortable investing your money in a technical indicator that works 3 out of every 8 times. Technicals are not truth they are prediction and jumping the gun is not a successful strategy in trading. It is far better to see what the market is showing you and act accordingly, than to predict. Afterall, one of the worst things you can do is pick tops and bottoms and what is this if not predicting. A trend or reversal is not a prediction it is an observation of what the market is doing. Stick with the facts and use what the market tells you. Employ technicals but treat them with a pich of salt, and make sure you have the money management skills to employ them properly.

    5. Define your loss limit as you put a trade on and do not get out until this has been hit or the market has done what you thought it would. This is very important as it takes away fear. If you have accepted the loss and can handle it, and you know that this point is the worst it can get before you're stopped out, then what is there left to fear.

    Also there is nothing worse than buying 50 with a stop at 40, watching it trade 45 and getting yourself out because you've convinced yourself that you are wrong without the market proving it to you, then you watch as it goes and trades 90.

    Find an entry and exit and trust them. The market will try it's best to trick you into getting out for a loss or cutting that profit short. Remember, until it hits your stop, you weren't wrong, until it fulfills the reason for the trade, you weren't right. You're a human being, and therefore your own worst enemy, trust the judgment you made before you put the trade on, not the one you made when you went 2 ticks offside.

    These are a few of the things that experience has taught me, whether you agree or not I hope you find this useful.

    Best of luck for the future
    :)
     
    #35     Feb 11, 2004
  6. You know what? I think you are on to something. I quit!
     
    #36     Feb 11, 2004
  7. sjp

    sjp

    Dont listen at all to the last post....this guy is talking out of his arse. If you cant make money, come what may - then perhaps you should concentrate on animal husbandry and become a shephard.

    It is fools like the last guy to put a post here that convince people to hang around and lose even more money. Their main aim on these boards is to make a 'black art' out of something that is fundamentally simple. They write all the the sort of crap you can read above as much to make themselves believe it as to help anyone else. I suspect, and please correct me if Im wrong sir, that the guy above is a loser with a capital L.

    I on the other hand am a winner.

    Believe who you like pal, but why not make things simpler and just send me a cheque for all the cash you're gonna waste listening to bufoons like the guy above?

    I havent the time for such bufoonery.

    Yours
    Rich Trader
     
    #37     Feb 12, 2004
  8. Not sure if I am the guy above to which you are referring...

    However, I really like your style and would like to send you a check for all the money which I plan to lose.

    Is $10k enough?

    :D
     
    #38     Feb 12, 2004
  9. Oh agras....quit while your ahead.....(the wifey comment from pspr lol)

    But really, this is a tough environment to trade in....actually try longer term if that works for you....

    If you need to keep yourself busy during the trading day try getting a part time job.....and do your evening stock picking work at night....enter the next morning 1 hour after the open when things settle down.

    Diversify your picks throughout the sectors and hold overnight....this seems to work for you....

    Michael B.


     
    #39     Feb 13, 2004

  10. now that is a great post...!!

    Bravo Stratcat

    ICe
    :cool:
     
    #40     Feb 13, 2004