This. I'm astonished that some experienced traders wonder why they lose when they cannot answer the questions: why did you take the trade? without using the words "hope" "guess" "perhaps" "maybe" etc what is the value of your edge? did you price the trade and enter opening order(s) at the price you calculated would be fair value? what was your expected return from the trade? did you have a planned exit, with closing orders in place to achieve your target return? Fail to plan & plan to fail etc
I read through this entire thread and that one sentence sums it up. I would only add that the most difficult time to hit the exit button is when you have that uncomfortable loss and it makes back 90% of the loss and you still can't exit; -- then see the loss get greater than it was originally.
Have you tried to make excess returns on fairly priced items ? You don’t beat the odds by getting a fair price. I think it’s more about the conditions and to compute anything meaningful is really tough as we never step in the same river twice. We can extract value if we play a coin toss but it implies unfair prices or a biased coin. I don’t know why I lose. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. Maybe a butterfly’s wings just flapped. But I better recognize when current conditions are favorable, or adverse, to a setup and when the wind start to turns around. Traders fail because they don’t beat the odds. They spend too much for their gains.
Many traders are not yet psychologically prepared. They are driven by emotions, they do not know how to wait, they are gambling, they get euphoric after several successful trades, which leads to incorrect and thoughtless actions and bad consequences for their deposits in the end.
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IMHO, anyone who thinks that investing is hard work should try manual labor or a customer service job for a while Complex? Sure. Hard? Nah... Totally agree with @ironchef