The 4 stages of single women in NYC

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Port1385, Dec 12, 2008.

  1. get disposable cellphones for disposable girls, you pay nothing to get a new sim card (number)
     
    #61     Dec 13, 2008
  2. all a stage 1 guy needs is a bunch of friends who in return have a bunch of different friends, this way he doesn't even need to date to fuck stage 1 girls, you just fuck a different girl at different parties you get to go to, they come so easy so cheap so stupid you'd think it's a joke

    wtf, drive to Canada, are you out of your mind, there are prostitutes all over NY, they actually have some of the best, just check escort websites

    fuck morals, they don't exist, and hell it is better than paying to take a girl on 3 dates and getting nothing, fuck that is messed up
     
    #62     Dec 13, 2008
  3. why would you consider it hatred?

    humans are objects, male or female. it's only logical if a women or anyone else for that matter sees me as an object, because there really is nothing else there, i'm just a walking talking object like all other beings

    if data we recieve through our senses are food, then feelings are the crap we shit after we eat food

    feelings are worthless they don't mean nothing, any attachment to any feeling will only bring suffering and mental illness, it's like eating your own crap
     
    #63     Dec 13, 2008
  4. karol88

    karol88


    haha, now I know why people are trying to talk to me every time they hear me say something....my accent is terrible! :)

    what a thread btw....ET is full of revelations :D
     
    #64     Dec 14, 2008
  5. There are escorts all over NYC, but there are also stings and undercover cops as well. The other day I saw an undercover car disguised as a taxicab. It was pulling someone over. Kind of funny to see a yellow taxi with police strobes. Those are the lengths cops will go around NYC to bust people.

    If you get arrested, then you have this embarassing criminal record for all to see. Many years ago, I was underwriting huge credit lines for mortgage brokers. We ran a D&B on all the principals. One came back where one of the principals was convicted of indecent exposure. I called the guy and explained what I found to which he replied that he was fooling around in a car on a hot-date. The police rolled up, he got busted and arrested. I thought it was a good explanation, but my boss looked at it and said "we dont want to give that a credit line" in a loud angry voice. That was it...

    Trust me, you want to drive to Canada. Maybe Spitzer should have taken that drive...

    I know about those disposable cell phones in Walmart. Actually, those are a great idea. However, you have to explain to others why you have so many cellphones. NYC people are sharp and observant....


     
    #65     Dec 14, 2008
  6. why would anyone want to pay for sex -without even knowing the girl- if they are a normal , healthy, average looking person is beyond me. Let alone if you have looks and money.

    That said I think it 's a disgrace that you can't pay for sex in America. You have to set your priorities straight IMO.
     
    #66     Dec 14, 2008
  7. When you are a guy in your 20s, women come very easily. You dont have to do or say that much. They just come and appear from nowhere...

    Then the 30s hit and you find yourself beating back weight gain. You have to carefully diet and workout or the belly&chin just appear like that.

    Then the 40s hit and its more then just some extra pounds but hairloss, grey hair, wrinkles and other such things. With each year after 40, the goal of exercise is not to look younger or to attract women, but to simply maintain your health so they dont have to use the public defibrilator systems on you one day.

    With each passing year, it gets a little bit tougher to simply have those casual encounters like it was in your 20s. It also costs you a great deal in time and energy. Even a young good looking guy cant go out and get laid every week in NYC. So for an older guy, its much harder.

    At some point in your life, you figure out that paying for sex isnt really that bad...If you are not willing to pay and believe prostitution is bad, then you can try your luck at the bars, try your hand at dating or maybe even get married and see how that works out. You can even just give up and stay home to watch the shows on Channel 13 while drinking a good whiskey.






     
    #67     Dec 14, 2008
  8. karol88

    karol88

    that's why by the time a man hits 40 and a women 35, they better be settled down/married with the right person. An older man hitting on a younger woman looks very desperate and even disgusting to some women... 90% of the time the only young women they will be able to attract are golddiggers....then it's no wonder why some wealthy men have such a low opinion of women, this is all they can get!
     
    #68     Dec 14, 2008
  9. A woman should have as much fun as she can in high school and college. Then she should be actively looking for a quality guy to marry soon after. As the clock ticks forward, her value to many men simply erodes.

    Its sad, but its a trueism in life.

    For a guy, its different. I went out with a 25 year old the other day who didnt seem to care. (By the way, I only spent $15, but thats another story.) To be honest, Im not certain how much longer I can get away with dating and its probably a good idea for me to start thinking of marrying one of these women.

    The secret for a guy to keep his youth is simple. Simply get your ass out there on that road and run 3-4 miles each day when you wake up at 5am. Then hit the gym and go from there. Stay away from snacks and eating too much. Diet diet diet.

    However, even a woman who works out with that type of regimand finds it harder for herself.

    There is a whole army of women in NYC who are very successful, but Im not certain if they will ever get married. I've gone out with them all from nurses to doctors to senior managers. In a way, they are all the same. I guess the good thing is that its not that hard to get into their pants like their younger counterparts.

    Its not neccasarily wrong to be single and its not neccasarily right to be married. I've met unhappy single people and then I've met unhappy married people. The answer to the equation is to just have as much fun as you can and value experiences over all else...
     
    #69     Dec 14, 2008
  10. karol88

    karol88

    everyone should do at least half as much, dating or not :)
     
    #70     Dec 14, 2008