"spirituality" videos - Part II

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    I was out of control.. therapy saved me

    Jilted lovers make up almost half of all offenders treated for obsessive, stalking behaviour.

    Thomas transformed from a law-abiding, hard-working father and husband into a crazed stalker when his wife of seven years left him.

    A spiral of obsessive behaviour culminated in him bugging his ex’s home and recording her with her lover.

    Thomas, an office worker from North Yorkshire, says: “Looking back, I had no idea what I was doing. I was out of control. I only realised when I went to court and saw it all there in black and white – the hundreds of phone calls and the texts and the times I showed up at the house.

    “In my mind I was just trying to save my marriage, but to her it was harassment. I couldn’t see that difference. That was why I needed the counselling.”

    Thomas had been married for seven years when his wife asked him to move out. She gave no reason and he was forced to live with his parents at the age of 27.

    “I felt like I was losing _everything. I was desperate and powerless,” he says.

    “It became an obsession to get her back. I’m not proud of it but that was why I felt the need to text her and call her so much. I didn’t realise it was threatening.”

    But Thomas’s behaviour escalated until he convinced himself his wife had been seeing someone else and was desperate to find out who.

    “It was a spur-of-the-moment thing and not something I am proud of at all but I put a recording device by her

    bedroom door one day when I went round to see the kids.
     
    #701     Aug 21, 2013
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    But Thomas’s behaviour escalated until he convinced himself his wife had been seeing someone else and was desperate to find out who.

    “It was a spur-of-the-moment thing and not something I am proud of at all but I put a recording device by her

    bedroom door one day when I went round to see the kids.

    “When I got it back the next day and heard her bringing another man home, I was angry and confronted her.”

    Thomas’s wife called the _police and he was arrested at work and charged with _harassment. He pleaded guilty but because of his clean record and positive character _references, he escaped a

    prison sentence. Instead, he

    was _ordered to see a counsellor for 12 months.

    He says the therapy saved his life. “It made me realise the true impact of what I was doing to the woman I once loved and to my children.”
     
    #702     Aug 21, 2013
  3. More about what stalkers are up to... and why ( they indeed have a mental illness ad there is a clinical psychiatric unit for hem).

    http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467

    https://www.facebook.com/stalkinghelpline/posts/488896007870979

    Being at the receiving end of persistent stalking for over 3 years was disturbing for my trading. As stalkers - due to their mental illness- easily will perpetrate acts of
    slandering, libel, defamations, harassment, invasion of privacy. And in this case, even pass details around to proxenetes networks ( as she practiced prostitution on the side with some of her female "colleagues" in prostituta activities), and even going to hire some really deranged people to threaten families and lives.

    So yep, someone should take their courage, phone the clinical psy unit there, and help these mentally ill people get treatment. Finding escuses to prevent them getting treatment is not a valid escuse when dealing with mentally ill people.
    Now, obviously, as in this situation crimson and prostitutas got involved in some real criminal behaviors, there might the the fear of justice, so they need 'help' into getting proper help.
     
    #703     Aug 21, 2013
  4. I guess within next 2 weeks I will have finished clearing up the psychological/spiritual junk resulting from these undesirable people. Then one week of getting used tto the combine platform - they still do not have ninja!

    I understand that one key is really to identify the negative experiences. Done.
    Next to check other people's experiences/cases so as to identify what type of choices
    my unconscious could have chosen and has chosen, and make a consciousl choice of what I prefer to keep in my unconscious mind.
    I have learned so much about the working of the human mind!

    If not because of the trading, I do not think I'd really have bothered about psychology/spirituality. Now I understand better the saying to reach a stretching goal, one usually becomes 'another person'- aka a person without a certain type of junk that put limitations. Trading is really about working one's limits.
    These limits are usually learned via negative experienced that have not been processed well.
     
    #704     Aug 21, 2013
  5. Still testing the daily routine, and it seems to be manageable.
    Yesterday, we had the chance to see a make-up artist working on different Ladies
    in this town. A real eye-opener for my "colleague" to see how to turn a Ladies into a 7/10, 8/10, 9/10 at least. Now, I understand better the conversation about first ensuring to first chose a mentally healthy person... I now understand beter this very wealthy trader who turned his 3/10 girl into an 8+Lady. Clever guy.

    So here we go about make-overs

    <iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/fnasuqkYPag?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #705     Aug 22, 2013
  6. I think I will send this video to a friend to motivate him...
    Talk about physical fitness makeover.

    <iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/jRTTiqhkJPc?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #706     Aug 22, 2013
  7. wow !!!! talk about a make-over. From 1/10 to 7/10

    <iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/inT4y5e3tE4?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #707     Aug 22, 2013
  8. Oh Man, this one is the most telling . From 05:00 +

    <iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/1Mu_betPexI?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #708     Aug 22, 2013
  9. I am impressed. 68 years old woman. never done any plastic surgery!! Yup.
    Some women age very well. No wonder Iman is building a business empire in "turning any female into proper Ladies". I guess there are people who build, and doomed people who destroy... I have much to learn.

    <iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EPdETQDLtIA?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #709     Aug 22, 2013
  10. Checking the company, Iman cosmetics , shares : closely privately owned!!!
    She must be sitting on a goldmine.

    <iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/fA8HlELtiiM?feature=player_detailpage" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #710     Aug 22, 2013