Their mentality is really about raising the standards for everybody. Not astonishing that China managed in less than 10 years to raise more than 400 million people out of poverty. Really a different mindset : they love spreading abundance to as many people as possible. I understand why here there are some people who do not want to go home. Luckily for them, the people here do not have our mentality... I am really considering studying Asian philosophy - specially Confucius.
The interesting thing as well was to see a full city of identical 10 bedrooms house riviera-type villas. I was very astonished, as shall we say, these type of villas was normally meant "exclusive". A really different mindset. These were for "normal workers" for many of the nearby plants.
When I think of some people who sold their soul for $$$ and some their a$$ for materials. If Asian mentality spreads like that, there will be a sharp increase in depressions in the West.
Now I am really regretting not to have moved to Asia when I started trading. I was being really overcharged. Milking the cow.
<iframe width="640" height="390" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/-K09eXfT6uU" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> That's a very good reminder of why not getting proper help is an absolute no no no. Here it is about bad self-help books ( only 2-3% of these are actually valuable). And again there is a real difference between a PhD + clinical experience in the psy field with a graduate in psychology with whatever experience. Do yourself a favor : only for for the best when it comes to your mind.
I always wondered how comes within 1 or 2 years, their "problems" just seem to be continuing. I really don't know what to think of it: - just a shame so much of my time got wasted and disturbed by people who could have sorted themselves out, instead of exposing their crappiness via their junk behaviors ( staging things, look-alike, manipulations, deception, hiring "talking mouth", etc.) - karma in a certain way : not receiving real and effective long term help because of the deception and substitution. As they sow, they riped. They used deception and substitution : they get the same when they look for help. They blocked at the time some help I needed : as they sow, they riped. They need and seek help on psychological area : this real help got blocked via the "substitute" of the very much qualified psy. No wonder they send people ( indi student, etc... ) to try to pick my brain. Because to their dismay, I actually managed to get some very effective help. So yep, that some "females" get dumped over and over again and can't seem to solve her psy problem does not astonish me. Karma really works in a very strange way. But effectively, it always come. As everyday : starting again with the "discovering yourself" video. <iframe width="640" height="390" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/Nsd64zyTgAs" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
It is now good that with the coach we have moved on from the need of knowing why about these assholes. What is clear I "disturbed" them somewhere, as they obviously felt the need to demean, degrade anything valuable about me. Quiet interesting to even hear : nobody study for their degrees, they just buy it. lol. I am glad that I got some really good psy. In a way I feel sorry that they can only rely on their "substitute" psy. That's them stuck for the next decade paying a psy and not really moving on. Karma indeed.
I suppose it was very troubling for them to face their real crappiness, and as one coach said, just thinking of you, they got to face their own crappiness. This was difficult to understand. But now it makes sense. When face with one crappiness one can : - sort themselves out OR - be extremely defensive, because it is actually the core of their "ego" that is being exposed. I wish I had in the past understood the "ego" much earlier.
Now, as their "substitute" psy, is feeding their ego instead of getting them to really face their real issues, no wonder that every 4-6 months, they go back dealing with the same problem, instead of moving on, and tackling what the new challenges life has in store.
They did their crap because of ego, The "substitute'" psy is actually feeding their ego They will continue doing their crap because of ego Now I realise how lucky I have been to receive this excellent psy help from so many people. I am very grateful and humbled by that.