@SimpleMeLike is that type guy he is going to get that money his post may seem crazy to some but that is the mindset.
That transformation you described is exactly what separates the traders who survive from those who don't. The market has this unique way of forcing psychological evolution - either you adapt to handle the emotional challenges or you're gradually filtered out. It's not just about learning patterns or setups, but developing that resilience that becomes second nature through experience. The psychological scar tissue from those early losses actually becomes valuable armor for the long journey.
I think we need the "fuck you money" attitude. Otherwise we will pick every pennies and avoid losses. Which will make us fragile, concave and lose everything. We're here to size risk/reward opportunities. Trade the conditions. Not the PnL.
When we're too fixated on protecting every dollar, we ironically make ourselves more vulnerable to catastrophic losses. The traders who can separate their identity and emotions from individual trade results are the ones who can objectively size opportunities based on market conditions rather than their P&L anxiety. It's counterintuitive but liberating - being willing to accept small losses actually creates the psychological foundation for consistent profitability.
One of the things I wanna add I've never imagined that I can ever find a community where I meet this much experienced traders from those who has spended dacades doing it to those who started resently i just wanna thank everyone of you to share your valuable knowledge I am just a child a 19 years old some of you are here more then my age i really appreciate your advise. Thank you everyone. Don't mind if I make mistakes in grammar.