i know this is going to be controversial but it has been nagging at me for a while so i will post it and you can make your own opinion. i would first like to say i am not gay, nor do i have a problem with people who are gay. so here it is. i was thinking what is a same sex relationship. people say it is when a man and a man have sex or a woman and a woman have sex. so then i thought how do you define gender. well the obvious is penis vagina. then i thought what does the bible say. then i read genesis it says the definition of a woman is someone who is made from man, it does not state it is someone that has a vagina. so is the bible's description of sex not necessarily based on physical form. i then thought why do you get gay people that are like women, they have the same chemicals straight men have but they are sensitive like women perhaps the the differentiation is something else. is the bible's explanation of gender different to the human understanding. read a bible and see what it says. is this just me or have i misread it. i would like your opinion. and please not insults this is a serious argument and i am not claiming a side just debating. what do you think.