If you've got the bling why even consider marriage in Amerika? If she doesn't like the situation then move on. There are plenty of women out there. Except for your immediate family, none of them are "special". Have you given her The Door Test? <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/-lNNUl9jrzw&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/-lNNUl9jrzw&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-lNNUl9jrzw
Most marriages are a crappy deal. Remember this legendary Craig's List exchange? Worth reading by anyone considering marriage proposals. http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/sex/a/gold_digger.htm
the first few years of a relationship people are on their best behavior. make sure you know what she is truely about. you can tell by her actions what kind of person she is,authentic,,pretentious,greedy,jealous,vindictive and manipulative. you SHOULD also know if she truely loves you as a partner and not a brother. do not get married because she is pretty and you don't think you will ever find anyone that good looking.
:eek: Without words here...after reading all of your posting about women, and marriage makes sense why there are so many divorcees.....I guess most men here NEVER had a real woman. Listen up guys, either a woman MAKES a man or BREAKS a man....there is no in between. It would seem that all these men (boys) that posted had women or girls that broker them...how sad that is......myself, married, 2 children, and married for 16 years....1 hiccup in those 16 years and the marriage is stronger than ever.
No, I know a poster child for a future divorce when I see one. You think its about money. The reality is, what will break your marriage, is your pathetic attitude towards someone who deserves a hell of a lot better than you. You think you are smart. Instead, you are empty without realizing how deep the hole is.
LOL. This is not a good start to your marriage and you are right in planning for the worst case scenario.
Best post in this thread so far . . . If you had to start this stupid thread and ask a strangers opinion . . . she's definately not the right girl. The right one won't need a prenup.
Make sure you include the "Bobbitt" clause in the pre-nup, it should go something like this: "I promise I will not sever my husband's penis for any reason ever, weather warranted or not, ever." Then have her sign it and initial it. He tried to cash in on his fame by being a stand up comic, a greeter at a brothel and a carnival sideshow freak, but didn't have much success. He has also appeared on Howard Stern and some Porno movies. Basically, he is a low-life drifter and has been in and out of jail. He recently married Joanna Ferrell, 31. He apparently also has married once before (since Loreena) as Amazon carries a book called This Week I Married John Wayne Bobbitt by some nobody named Dottie Brewer. And, YES, it still works. May 2004: Reader Richard reports "He's been living in or around Fallon, Nevada. At one time he worked at a steel joist factory there. he's had problems with the law several times since moving there in the late 90s." Having your penis severed will alter your life. Not that I know 1st hand, but I can only imagine how difficult it could make things.
Make absolutely sure you get a good prenup, because your marriage will end within 10 years (and probably less). Someone already said this, but the only thing you should be focussing on is finding the right lawyer. Asking for help here is like asking for help at the petting zoo.