HEre is my idea of the girlfriend, I train her every single day and condition her to be this person. a) Good looking. (7+) out of 10 Once you get past 7 , its not much of a difference. b) Water Mops/Vaccums the floors and cleans the bathroom toilet Every sunday. Hand washes all my laundry (we don't have a washer lol ) I don't have much laundry either.. c) Cooks lunch/dinner every single day d) Sex on tap ( of course the volume knob needs to be turned for her for , more pleasuerable if she's into it as well) e) (good friend) goes out to movies/places as a companion anytime I Want to, doesn't sit her ass at home watches tv. Temperement: f) happy at all times, she should NEVER be depressed, If I need to happy her up, she has issues. <b> g) Listens and changes her behavior when you ask, such as: </b> .) brush your teeth at night not in the morning .) Do not have me remind you for everything, when the water at the water cooler is out, call automatically, don't wait for me to tell you .) When the refrigerator is out of veggies, get it automatically. .) don't get frustrated when you can't get something, know the value of $ e) Saves your money , doesn't waste it, Doesn't buy new clothes all the time, if she does, it better be 70% on scale. Reason: Good looking girls can wear the same white tshirt and still look good, tell her this. thats her instrinic value$ g) Takes good care of you when you are sick h) When you are depressed or unhappy, she SHOULD cheer you up. Tell her this, The agreement works like this when one is mad, the other person should ask why and cheer them up, works equally. i) does not raise her voice with you. ---Personality g) should be fun, thats easy though, most hot girls are FUN, thats what they do all their lives, tease men and have FUN. only ugly girls aren't fun, most 7+ hot girls are relatively personable. the one thing good looking girls have at instrinic value is always her social skills. Lots of experience from 300 guys hitting her up all the time. ----- Body e) keep it thin. ------------------------- Most of the above attributes were not available when you get a girl, you really hve to condition and train them. And most of all, you need to be in a position of power to demand all these demands. If you are fat, don't demand your wife to be thin. If she realizes its mutual, she will follow and be conditioned, All PRETTY girls have been pampered their whole lives ,5 star dinners at dates, car doors opened, other bullshit, when you start dating a pretty girl, once you fk her, you start conditioning her immediately. You don't condition her before you fk her, cause she'll be like wtf, if she doesn't fk you within the first 1-2 months , you condition her that if she doesn't fuck you asap, you'll be leaving cause she isn't a good girlfriend. Once you fuck her, you start conditioning her for everything else. <b> Return wife Vs liability wife </b> This makes a good wife WITH RETURNS (sex, cooks food, does maintence, insures happiness) . not a liability wife (just wastes your money, low sex, eats your food and doesn't cook, dirties up the place, makes you unhappy ou have to find a psyhocologist!) <b> Women are NOT conditioned when you pick them up </b> if they were, the guy before would have married her 1000000% The female market, is quickly arbed ............... Good value is quickly seen by men as well, so if she was good value (good looks and the package), she would have been snatched up by another guy very quickly, most of the women you find will be lazy, self serving so you must condition them to become a diamond. You can also find one very young (18-19 years old) and condition her, Current girl is 19 ,I'm 28. Very easy to condition a younger girl.
I'm not a woman, but I can't see what self respecting human being would want to be your partner coolweb
3 choices. a) girlfriend to a homeless bum b) servant to a king c) lonely women with 9 cats in the woods Which is the best choice? -------------------- modern times is sure is strange, because baack in the days, Past 2000 year history, it is expected that women do all the above. These days, women think they are "Above" household duties and <b>men LET THEM and think its OK! </b>
A first I was pissed coolweb, but now I'm just a little astonished at your audacity ... but then again, I'm confident that you actually ARE able to get what you want. Belive it or not folks, women are a strange breed. When I'm inbetween girlfriends, I can't find one to save my life, when I actually want to take the time out and put the energy into a relationship, it's like they're all over me and constantly trying to steal me from the woman I'm with. So in retrospect, coolweb just might be making some sense here. Having said that, I wouldn't be surprised if somewhere down the line he gets hit with a massive alimony lawsuit from some wench who conned him into getting her pregnant and now has alittle coolweb running around so that she can siphon off his millions.
If you are going to try to reconfigure their brain you are playing a losing battle. If a woman is really really hot she has 99 friends that want to fix her pc, take her out, buy her a gift, that's just how it is. She won't even notice if you refuse to hopen your wallet for her and the hotter she is the richer guy she is going to meet it is just a fact. When a woman is hot no guys deep down really care about her favorite book or what is her stand on political issues, when a woman is hot 99% of guys just want to see her naked. Since her look is going to fade with time, that particular kind of woman is going to place her puss* on an ebay like auction for the highest bidder. If she is smart she will try to cash in her chips between 18 and 30 by marrying a man of $ub$tance if you know what I mean. A hot woman does not work as a chashier at the supermarket, she is her own commodity so she keeps looking as hot as she can to attract the " right " guy. And please don't think that the " right " guy is someone with a heart of gold and an empty wallet. So you see, there is absolutely nothing wrong in paying for the look, if you think about it that's only what most hot woman got for themselves. The look. If you ask me, prostitution should be legal, most men will be better off, unforunately we live in a society that is very hypocritical and fake. Our sociey sees nothing wrong in giving 1/2 of what is yours to a woman after you divorce her. Looks like men are still going to pay one way or the other, but in my opinion a prostitute is way more honest than all those semi- hot women who write personal ads looking for a man of $ub$tance. Someone I know went to Thailand 3 times and when he says such thing in a casual conversation women and people in general give him the look and think he is a pervert. On the other hand you also have men like Hugh Hefner or some famous actor surrounded by hot women at all times and they are considered an icon some sort of hero. The only difference between the regular guy who goes to Thailand and Hugh Hefner is 400 millions. That's it, they both like young young women ok ?!
Neither sex can help it as they are hardwired for this thinking. Guys like big breast and nice hips because their brain tells them those features will help their mate carry their child and nurse them later. Women still like strong, confident, dominant men, no longer because they would help protect them or hunt but because those type are usually successful and have wealth which translates back to being protected and taken care of in todays terms. In a world dominated by men, a women holds the key to the snapper and has learned how to use it to her advantage. I don't blame them at all, if I had one I would capitalize on it too.
so she's 19, a little lazy, and without a job (is she at least at school)? she must be like: ----- ".... wow, that's better than living at home: I sleep late, don't work, watch tv all day, do some cleaning & cooking: just enough so he shuts up (make sure he thinks I'm actually struggling with the amount of homework he asks me to do), put some fake smiles whenever he looks at me, make sure he doesn't catches me "rolling my eyes" when he nags me, tell him "I love you", always agree with him (doesn't mean I really do, but hey, it works!!), listen to him complaining about all his bullshit problems (although I could care less), learn some good sentences to put a smile on his face (I know all the good tricks by now)...and on top of that I get paid for all this! (yes Hun, all the stuff was on sale) oh, and if he ever goes broke (or if I decide that he's not good looking/rich enough for me), I will simply look for another sugar daddy (unless that handsome guy I was just chatting with asks me out tonight)....what a wonderful life! ..." ------ looks like you've got yourself a winner!
In that case you are the list maker, you didn't really love her. Imagine if it were her who impose those conditions to you. What will be your reaction, feeling?
High standards require high standards. I require the same standards from myself. a) I Workout every single day 7 days a week. [ I don't become fat or bankrupt our family with a huge hospital bill, This is also to reduce stress] b) I eat extremely healthy, no salt or sugar. c) I make low risk, instant profitable trades, with low risk [ this keeps our famly bankruptcy risk free, we won't risk ruin if I make sure I keep our finances/money in exceptional perfection] d) I remember every important date and make all the date perfect just like in dreams. e) 2-5 days vacations around the world every 1-2 months [this is to reduce stress, done because I make profitable trades] f) I always live in the best value hotels . [5 star cleansiness/quality/style hotels at 3 star prices. on sale] g) I work 9 hours a day to wait for the best trades per day [8 hours of them are dozing off, but what the hell, I Was sitting there, girl was sleeping.] i) Remembering everything befoer she even tells me. IF there is something that a MAN needs to do, it will be done without her asking, Changing the lightbulb? DONE. Making the money? DONE. Grilling the steak? DONE. High standards demand high standards. -------- The mans role is a lot larger then the women, Just because I don't mention them, doesn't mean they aren't there. a Mans role is to keep the family from risk of ruin and to explore new treasure. A womens role is to keep what the man reaps and maintain it. You stop out a lazy girl like a trade. Instantly when she doesn't do something right. Likewise, if you do something wrong, You should stop out yourself.