don't forget that life is a boomerang: what you sow you shall reap. One day you may wake up with your balls cut off.
most people look for a fantasy relationship. "Love" is way over rated. Presumably most marriages are based on "love". Yet more than 50% end up in divorce. The conclusion being "love" is not the determinant factor in a successful relationship. More relationships would last longer if they Put more emphasis on mutual respect and honesty than some fantasy life they want to go home to. Another observation amongst my friends. Relationships between the ugly guys with pretty wives seem to last longer. Also guys with asian wives seem to have a happier life.
Sounds true for long term relationship because she's looking for a guy who do everything for her, but it's not for short term relationship. While another type of guy doesn't care much about her endless demands, so it works only for short term relationship, not for long term.
If you want a girl who 'knows how to be a girl' - it's quite simple Man up, be a true man (in every sense of the word), and you'll end up attracting a submissive girl This needs clarification. The key is not so much whether a girl is Asian or White, it is WHERE a girl grows up, what culture she grows up in. Real Asian girls, the ones who actually grew up in Asia are the cream of the crop (as well as girls from South America and Eastern Europe). Asian girls who grew up in America (and Western Europe) have exactly the same problems that traditional American girls have (self-centered and materalistic to an extraordinary degree) - it all stems from the culture. Trust me, I am an Asian American guy - I know what I'm talking about. What's really interesting is, I went to an International School in Asia, and there were some white girls who practically grew up in Asia their entire lives - they were definitely way better than the girls from the US.
I agree with aelodian and ephiphany, about manning up. The roles of man and women in relationships work like this to me. 1. the man makes the money, he better or theres no relationship 2. the man has say in everything. 3. the man takes care of himself and his family 1. the women takes care of the household 2. the women serves the man in eveyrway so the man can tak care of her. Both above points are negated if, the man can't make the money.
You are 100% correct - culture is everything. An ABC (American Born Chinese) is completely different from someone born and raised in China. My wife had been in the US only a few years when we met, and after our years together it is clear for me to see whether a person is ABC or not.
To protect assets from a divorce, Many people would say, do not marry in the first place, Thats pretty annoying thing to drag on if you met a really good submissive girl espically when you get older. I'd say have your risks in check before you get married, forget the prenup, sometimes they don't work or not useful if your assets aren't above 5MM++ Move everything out from your name into corps you control or brothers you trust or mothers you trust, or fathers you trust , (this is if you have money) , if you don't why bother? both of you are doomed. b. Leave around $250k -500k in your control Pretty simple, Sure she'll take 1/2 the house or the house when she leaves, but thats to be expected. As I said, have your risks already claculated. If you don't want your house taken, have it in your brothers name, or transfer it. If you don't have a brother or a living parent, use a corp. with advisors. -------------- I'd say the loss should be already calculated before you enter the agreement of marriage. Just like a trade.
Another method to protect assets, is to marry/live in 1 country, have assets in another country. This way the law can't touch your assets, espically if your s.o can't even enter that country to sue you for it.
ok, one point for you! another reason: these days we have many educated women out there, and the key to a good relationship is when the man is smarter (although education not always equals IQ), the woman will lose respect if the guy turns out to be dumber than her....
If you 'manned up' there would be no need to consider women your subject. Real men command respect, but do not demand the respect, of women they want to be with. There is a difference. Earning the respect by being a man, not some feminist wimp, and truly manning up, takes absolute morals and integrity. You will never earn respect of any woman worth having without both. Demanding respect is threatening loss as punishment for not submitting to your demands. That is no way to lead unless you are a poor military leader. Even then, there is no devotion, and the girl you rent, as I spoke of earlier, will always be looking for a way out, somebody better, some way to take advantage of you while she fends obedience. Manning up is more than behavior. More than some code that sounds good to you. More than a set of standards on how you want her to act. None of those are sustainable to keep the love and/or devotion of a woman worth keeping. That's the problem. I do not disagree with you and some others that there are times in a man's life when we are sick of the kind of woman in today's professional world. We want a real woman, not some feminist quasi-woman with masculine tendencies. If that is the root of your frustration, then I sympathize. However, retaliating against such women by punishing other women will bring you no closer to manning up.