I don't think she's a whore mgookin, I think she is smart, and doing things the way she wants to. This has been the nature of things for centuries. Some cultures deal with them one way, and other cultures deal with them in another way. At least you were smart enough to make the necessary defensive steps when your assets were threatened ...most men are not.
If she did like that, what prevent her from doing more worst. Were all the three men the biological fathers of her three kids respectively? Attractive Women Want It All
Nice theory, but not so anymore. The courts favor the PERSON WHO MAKES LESS MONEY. The husband of my best friend (a good hearted, hardworking female) became permanently disabled in a construction accident. Serious head injury and brain scrambling that made him impossible to live with. She sought a divorce. So what did he get? Their mostly paid off house in a wealthy area plus a large onetime cash payment from her. He already gets permanent SSI disability payments. So he doesn't have to work, and walked away with over $300,000 in house equity and cash in the bank. She gets to bust her butt 11 hours a day at a job paying the primary costs for her kid, including college. The only good thing is, she managed to get her kid named as the heir to the house, if he died. ----------------------------------------- And this chatter about how women are evil with the concept of men being more normal is so naive, it is nauseating. Who here would say how evil and gold-digging women are, if the subject were their daughters, their sisters, their mothers, their aunts, their close friends or their nieces??? Of course not; it is women they DON'T know who are the evil ones. Give me a break... If someone said your baby sister was a corrupt gold-digger, would you agree or punch him in the mouth?
Girls usually marry up, if they can. Which means their husband will usually make more money than her. Therefore in a divorce, the girl makes out. Besides, even in the rare instances where the girl does make more, she almost always ends up getting custody of the kids, no matter what. Again, the girl makes out. If my daughter was only into a guy for his money and treating him like an ATM, yes I would call her a gold-digger. Any self-respecting father would discipline his daughter for that.
Man this thread is pathetic. 95% of you will eventually fail at trading yet you are scared of a 50% chance. Marriage is what you make it. Just as in trading, it takes work. Sometimes it is fun other times it makes you deeply question yourself. If you are not willing to put in the work, then don't bother getting married. If you are to marry someone, I recommend you know them for at least 5 years and live with them for at least 3. This gives enough time for the newness and "false front" to wear off and you really get to know the "true" person. If she is not down with this then run away as she probably has a hidden agenda. While I agree that money complicates things, you can get a feel for what kind of women she is over time from "hints" that she shows. Keep in mind that even the poor ones eventually change once money is available. The key to avoiding confilct is to not let your ego get in the way and instead of arguing about trivial crap just let them think that they are right. Ask any couple who has been married a long time and they will tell you don't sweat the small stuff. Also little things mean more to women than just buying them stuff as they all get tired of cleaning up after men all the time. Last but not least, get married in a state that does not have alimony or marry one who is not a super model and that makes more money than you. Happily Married for 5 years, known her for 11 and lived together for 4 prior to.