Please Help.. Please

Discussion in 'Psychology' started by mrnate22, Nov 30, 2012.

  1. I think trading is just too hard.. Not only do you need to be an expert technically, you also need to be expert mentally..
     
    #281     Dec 12, 2012
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    #283     Dec 12, 2012
  4. I call it friction - all vendors, educators, coaches, mentors, therapists, etc. that extract money from the losers before they lose it in the markets to the winners. There is a lot of friction nowadays.
     
    #284     Dec 12, 2012
  5. Nope, not CF. Rande's book is pretty cheap , maybe $ 35 if i remember correctly. Not sure if that is lucrative, you'll have to ask your friend Denise.
     
    #285     Dec 12, 2012
  6. Mysteron

    Mysteron

    After the Fed announcement stocks moved significantly, it was a good time to trade, regardless of what the announcement actually said, who cares so long as there is a reaction and prices move.

    I had a brief look at your trading journal:

    http://www.elitetrader.com/vb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=247066

    and your statements often come across as highly opinionated as to how markets will react. Holding such opinions is completely alien to my way of thinking. I particular your belief of the SPY reacting at the 20 ema is quite simply nonsense. Trade what you see not what you believe.

    As for not sticking to your rules, you acknowledge you have difficulty there. Personally I don't like the idea of rules as it sounds inflexible, but you should have some form of trading process that you follow. The fact you admit to not following your rules indicates that you haven't developed such a process yet. Until you do that then trade small in order to loose small otherwise you are throwing your money away. I presume that you are not making a consistent profit otherwise you would not be seeking advice.
     
    #286     Dec 12, 2012
  7. As for not sticking to your rules, you acknowledge you have difficulty there. Personally I don't like the idea of rules as it sounds inflexible, but you should have some form of trading process that you follow. The fact you admit to not following your rules indicates that you haven't developed such a process yet. Until you do that then trade small in order to loose small otherwise you are throwing your money away. I presume that you are not making a consistent profit otherwise you would not be seeking advice. [/B][/QUOTE

    Mysteron,

    I don't trade after the Fed cause it gets too choppy and usually stops me out..

    I tried writing a journal here before cause I thought it will help my discipline but it didn't.

    Regarding technicals, I may have opinions of what the market will do the next day but I trade what the market actually does.. I have complete confidence in my trading system and i can spot setups 70%+ accuracy.. The problem is me, myself and I..

    The only time I make money is when I follow my rules and I rarely do that..
     
    #287     Dec 12, 2012
  8. This will be my last post..

    I broke my rules again today and as much as I want to control my emotions, I just can't do it.. I believe lack of discipline is the main reason why a lot of traders fail.

    I gave it a try but I don't have the mental toughness like other profitable traders..

    Thanks everyone who gave me advice and good luck with Trading..
     
    #288     Dec 13, 2012
  9. ammo

    ammo

    any job you start would require continual changes personally,physically and mentally to continually improve ,push yourself, i can't is the first hurdle
     
    #289     Dec 13, 2012
  10. your honesty is refreshing in this business. Don't believe the claims of the "profitable traders" regardless of how "nice" and "willing to help" they seem. With this said, profitable traders do exist, but your mentors are showing you the wrong road. surf
     
    #290     Dec 13, 2012