I am genuinely pleased that I stumbled on to this message board â I have picked up a wealth of information. But the constant whining and complaining is getting a little old â know what I mean? So and so is a crook, the other guy is snake oil. The seminar is a rip-off, the book is pure crap! On and on it goes. Venders who are holding back the real secrets, or only parting with material that no longer works. It always seems to be the same characters who do the complaining â yet who apparently wonder from guru to guru. Never finding what they want, because it does not exist. Occasionally such bitching is amusing. Sometimes the anguish evokes a sense of sympathy, but after a while one is left more disgusted than anything else. I know of no vender who is a crook. I know of no author who has not sincerely attempted to pass on valid information. But apparently the place is crawling with disgruntled customers ready, willing and able to blame their own short-comings on to someone else. Not one of the people you accuse has ever promised a sure thing. Yet that is obviously the message you came away with, because thatâs what you wanted to hear.