Need motivation read this----the story of ---Jim MacLaren and Emmanuel Ofosu Yeboah-----winner of the Arthur Ashe Courage Award.---check your local listing for the replay of the ESPN espy 2005 award. http://www.ethicsdaily.com/article_detail.cfm?AID=2754 jims story the video:---used IE http://www.jimmaclaren.com/news.php#idea
Thanks for the link. I remember being told a number of years ago when I started trading that I should read 'Man's Search For Meaning' by Viktor Frankl who was a survivor of the concentration camps and Auschwitz and Dachau - and I would never feel sorry for myself about losing trades.
Viktor Frankl book is great-------viktor not only survive concentration camps but also-----the dying of wife, father, mother and brother---to the Nazi. Not only coping with lost of himself but his family.----maybe it helps with coping with stock lost---gives you a different perspective---i.e. âI lost today in stocks but compare to what!â or âI still got my familiyâ Victors favorite quote is â`He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how' Good day
Viktor Frankl and Logotherapy psycholgy. http://members.aol.com/timlebon/FranklLogotherapy.htm 1.What is Logotherapy? a) Definition Literally, logotherapy means 'therapy through meaning'. It's an active-directive therapy aimed at helping people specifically with meaning crises, which manifest themselves either ina feeling of aimlessness or indirectly through addiction, alcoholism or depression. Logotherapy also employs techniques useful for phobias, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorders and medical ministry. Other applications include working with juvenile delinquents, career counselling and helping all of us find more meaning in life. b) Foundations i) Existentialism It's existentialist becauseit emphasises the freedom of the will and the consequent responsibility.It also, of course, asserts the importance of the meaning of life. Whilst Freud said human's have a will to pleasure and Adler the will to power, Frankl says we have a will to meaning. If it is frustrated, spiritual (noogenic) neuroses result. Frankl argued that the the spiritual (noetic) dimension of man should be added to the physical and psychological dimensions. For Frankl, ultimate meaning does exist andis unique to each person and each situation. Each moment offers 'a sequence of unrepeatable situations each of which offers a specific meaning to be recognised and fulfilled'. Meaning cannot be invented but must be discovered. ii) Stoicism It's Stoic, because it holds that no matter what the state of the world, our attitude can always help us. The Stoic Epictetus held that 'Men are not moved by events but by their interpretations'. Even in facing death and suffering, by showing courage we can turn a situation into a supremely meaningful one. iii) Frankl's own experiences, in concentration camps and as a psychiatrist "This was the lesson I had to learn in three years spent in Auschwitz and Dachau: other things being equal, those apt to survive the camps were those oriented toward the future - toward a task, or a person, waiting for them in the future, toward a meaning to be fulfilled by them in the future" . But Logotherapy was also the result of Frankl's own ideas and improvisations, not all of which are very obviously connected with his experiences in the camps or the meaning of life. 2.Techniques of Logotherapy 1.Paradoxical Intention The therapist encourages the patient to intend or wish for, even if only for a second, precisely what they fear. oUsed for obsessive, compulsive and phobic conditions (not for suicidal or schizophrenic patients). oUseful in cases of underlying anticipatory anxiety, often works very quickly. oMobilises the human capacity for self-detachment, often with a sense of humour oHans Gerz claims that paradoxical intention is successful in 80-90% of cases The case of the sweating doctor (from Pyschotherapy and Existentialism, p 139) A young doctor had severe hydrophobia. One day, meeting his chief on the street, as he extended his hand in greeting, he noticed that he was perspiring more than usual. The next time he was in a similar situation he expected to perspire again, and this anticipatory anxiety precipitated excessive sweating. It was a vicious circle ⦠We advised our patient, in the event that his anticipatory anxiety should recur, to resolve deliberately to show the people whom he confronted at the time just how much he could really sweat.A week later he returned to report that whenever he met anyone who triggered his anxiety, he said to himself, "I only sweated out a litre before, but now I'm going to pour out at least ten litres !" What was the result of this paradoxical resolution ? After suffering from his phobia for four years, he was quickly able, after only one session, to free himself of it for good. You are the logotherapist In the following cases, what paradoxical intention, if any, would you recommend ? i)A man is fearful that he will die from a heart attack. Physical check-ups reveal him to be in good health. ii) An obsessive-compulsive comes to you because she is concerned about the number of times she washes her hands each day. iii) A young man comes to you for help with stuttering. What do you advice ? iv) A schizophrenic is anxious that the people he sees on the tube are out to get him. 2.Dereflection The therapist diverts the patients away from their problems towards something else meaningful in the world. oused specifically for sexual dysfunction. Deflection indicated because (e.g.) the more you think about potency during sex, the less likely you are to achieve it, oNo use just telling them to stop thinking about something â need to substitute something positive ( e.g. insomniac -donât just tell them to stop trying to sleep, tell them to count sheep). oMore generally, logotherapy can be seen as dereflecting the patient away from their presenting problem towards searching for meaning. Patient is dereflected from their disturbance to something other than themselves. Frankl's advice to Anna, 19-year old art student who displays severe symptoms of incipient schizophrenia. She considers herself as being confused and asks for help. Patient ⦠What is going on within me ? Frankl: Don't brood over yourself. Don't inquire into the source of your trouble. Leave this to us doctors. We will steer and pilot you through the crisis. Well, isn't there a goal beckoning you â say, an artistic assignment ? Patient: But this inner turmoil â¦. Frankl: Don't watch your inner turmoil, but turn your gaze to what is waiting for you. What counts is not what lurks in the depths, but what waits in the future, waits to be actualised by youâ¦. Patient: But what is the origin of my trouble ? Frankl: Don't focus on questions like this. Whatever the pathological process underlying your psychological affliction may be, we will cure you. Therefore, don't be concerned with the strange feelings haunting you. Ignore them util we make you get rid of them. Don't watch them. Don't fight them. Imagine, there are about a dozen great things, works which wait to be created by Anna, and there isno one who could achieve and accomplish it but Anna. No one could replace here in this assignment, They will be your creations, and if you don't create them, they will remain uncreated forever⦠Patient : Doctor, I believe in what you say. It is a message which makes me happy. 3.Orientation towards Meaning The therapist tries to enlarge the patient's discernment of meaning â in the past, present and future, and creatively, experientially and attitudinally. 1. Meaning through creative values Frankl says that "The logotherapist's role consists in widening and broadening the visual field of the patient so that the whole spectrum of meaning and values becomes conscious and visible to him". A major source of meaning is through the value of all that we create, achieve and accomplish. " 2. Meaning through experiential values Frankl (The Doctor and the Soul) writes "Let us ask a mountain-climber who has beheld the alpine sunset and is so moved by the splendour of nature that he feels cold shudders running down his spine - let us ask him whether after such an experience his life can ever again seem wholly meaningless". 3. Meaning throughattitudinal values Frankl argued that we always have the freedom to find meaning through meaningful attitudes even in apparently meaningless situations. For example, an elderly, depressed patientwho could not overcome the loss of his wife was helped by the following conversation with Frankl. Frankl asked "What would have happened if you had died first, and your wife would have had to survive you". "Oh," replied the patient, "for her this would have been terrible; how she would have suffered ! Frankl continued "You see such a suffering has been spared her; and it is you who have spared her this suffering; but now, you have to pay for it by surviving her and mourning her."The mansaid no word, but shook Frankl's hand and calmly left his office." (Man's Search for Meaning) Case study of Harold (Chris Wurm) Harold was a middle-aged Australian whose life was rapidly spiralling out of control As well as a drinking problem he had financial problems- not helped by the amount he spent on drink - and was under considerable stress at work. His wife's sympathy was running out - no wonder he was also having trouble sleeping at night. He went to seeChris Wurm,a GP as well as a logotherapist. Wurm combined a medical approach - for example giving information about the damage drink was doing - with logotherapy. Invery fewsessions Harold's life was turned round, partly by the clarification the role of alcohol in his life and the alternatives. Wurm says"It was possible to discuss the notion that he could make choices and live his life in a variety of ways " ( there we see logotherapy's emphasis on responsibility) " some of which would be more meaningful than others. He was then able to reflect on the choices he had been making (this is the orientation towards meaning and values) , and the possibilities available in the future". "It was dramatic to see how determinedand effective he became, once he saw how his old strategies were backfiring".