Need desperate help (Lost life savings)

Discussion in 'Psychology' started by Needdesperatehelp, Feb 16, 2021.

  1. treeman

    treeman

    I’m so sorry this happened.
     
    #71     Feb 18, 2021
  2. Andrea Wylan

    Andrea Wylan Sponsor

    That isn't really dealing with the problem. The problem is internal. It needs to be dealt with or it will likely repeat.
     
    #72     Feb 18, 2021
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  3. Take your pick:

    Hare Krishna‘s
    QAnon
    Tony Robbins
    Mushrooms
    Micro Dose
     
    #73     Feb 18, 2021
  4. Snuskpelle

    Snuskpelle

    Maybe "Provided you learn from this" means something different in the English language than what I thought it did.
     
    #74     Feb 18, 2021
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  5. savoir

    savoir

    Life savings at 28? All those $20 bills grandma sent on birthdays really add up.

    This thread is a joke.
     
    #75     Feb 18, 2021
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  6. Millionaire

    Millionaire

    I was saving an absolute fortune in my late 20s living at home.
    Almost zero expenses while earning six figures.
     
    #76     Feb 18, 2021
  7. easymon1

    easymon1

    #77     Feb 19, 2021
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  8. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    The thread is useful because we can all relate to the disappointment and frustration of losing money trading.

    Some great ideas, and empathy.

    My rebuilding process:

    • Trade much smaller size, fewer more selective trades. 1 share, 1 micro
    • Don't overtrade, set a daily limit
    • Don't stop trading entirely, don't just papertrade ("papertrading is for pussies" lol) because you lose the mental impact if you're not really trading. 1 share real trading is 100x better than 1k paper bs.

    Over 21 years coaching thousands of active traders, I've heard it all.

    The most important thing to get right is risk management. And specific skills, the process, for scanning, entries and exits, and price action trading with position sizing. Good luck.
     
    #78     Feb 19, 2021
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  9. easymon1

    easymon1

    Still want to see that trading log. OP you could help the next guy. Pitch in.
     
    #79     Feb 19, 2021
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  10. Collagen

    Collagen

    Best advices I think came from carey. When You got beat down first thing to do is recover mentally. It can take few days or even a couple of months when You are deadly beat down. Don't take any decision and rebuild your mental state during this stage. After that, If You truly loves this job You need to create your own method for successfully managing trading. This is the hard part even If You truly have passion for this job.

    Last thing, that once a great trader told me during one of these event: Reasonable expectations. If You don't get this concept than You are doom for failure in the long term, because You are neither an investor or a trader. Rather a gambler. If that is the case a couple of nights at Las Vegas are better suited and more fun too.
     
    #80     Feb 19, 2021