OP, I asked my Better Half (because Iâm definitely no expert on women)... she says it sounds like depression (for whatever that is worth Sir) Regards RN
this is it: http://www.wholefamilyhealth.com/amazonherbs_lunazon.htm Lunazon. I swear to God, this is the best thing since sliced bread for my wife. It isn't altogether that powerful, but its like it fills the gap for my wife, who is going through menapause. Without it, she can get pretty volatile. With it, she only gets "regular" angry. Its like it just turns the volume down a few notches without destorting anything. My wife uses the capsules and they frickin' work. Trust me on this. SM
Well, first I would lock up your golf clubs. Plenty of good advise so far. Diet, excersise, and keeping her away from chemicals are all good ideas. Zen meditation also works for obsessive thoughts but requires dicipline. I disagree about medications. Granted they are dangerous and can have unpredictable effects. In some cases, medication will help the brain to permentantly rewire itself. At least it did for me. Ultimately she will have to work it out for herself. The best you can do is hang on and try to help.
Don't really have any advice for the OP. So I'll simply say I wish you the best of luck. What I would like to say is that I love threads like these. You can really tell who the nut cases of this website are from the crack pot advice they offer. I won't mention names but some of you are a danger to society. For the good of mankind, please do not breed.
haha...thanks for all the well wishes and advice through PM... Just to let you know, I followed one of the posters' advice and took her out of town and we went on a long 4 mile uphill hike..it was brutal and great and she was feeling better...she stopped going to the bathroom 50 times a day, and the pressure in her abdomen and genital area somewhat ceased...More importantly, her mood improved...it was a good week for her...less anxiety, etc... also, her blood tests and ultrasound came back totally NEGATIVE.... THEN.... On Monday, she went to her last 'therapist' session... On Tuesday, she was a wreck again...admittedly, less of a wreck, but enough to the point where our youngest son (who is 6) said "something is wrong with Mommy"...and "Mommy's not feeling well"... OY - setbacks are part of it I guess... She doesn't take any meds, but she did take some pills a few weeks ago for what the Dr thought was a UTI...She has an OK diet - doesn't eat all that much and doesn't drink enough water...I usually make us fruit protein shakes in the morning and I make dinner (meat, starch, veg)...she doesn't exercise AT ALL, and for the holidays I bought her a Hot Yoga class membership...THAT has to change and she's working on it... Just brutal though because this is not what I signed up for....If that makes me callous and insensitive, then so be it...I could understand if she had a real organic issue, but I think it's a psychosomatic problem, which makes it more frustrating than anything else...
http://www.sciencealert.com.au/news/20092511-20294.html Your wife you say have childhood stress. Look how this can effect her now. The fast food and the junk food is not the good source for fat she NEED, but maybe try other fats from meat, coconut, avocado, butter, nut, other. No hydrogenated fat.
so you are willing to leave your wife if she takes prescribed medication, yet you are willing to put up with her currently fucked up state of mind? doesn't make sense to me, you should leave her now before a teenage cock gets stuck in your brain too. most women are more perverted than men, it's funny that she can't get some boys cock and balls out of her head, that's some really fucked up funny shit, why doesn't she just fuck a 18 year old cock? or why don't you just bring a cute 18 year old to bed and fuck him while he fucks your wife, after that just kick both of them out of the house? I don't care if this will help or not, just saying, I went 180 on my wife 4 years into marriage, I hate arguing, it's the stupidest thing in the world, only bitches argue, so I never opened mouth over her crap, I kept everything inside, eventually it exploded, treated her like the shit she was for a few months, told her to leave me for good and to go fuck a crap like herself. In this day and age there is no reason to marry, women don't deserve it, there are better ways to life, way better ways.
Well noww the doctor is prescribing meds. Likely a prozac or something. She wants to start and I'm just like I dunno.
She needs meds, but it might take some trial and error to find what works best for her. Depression is a PHYSICAL malady that interrupts the brains' processing of signals from the endocrine system. It manifests in different ways - not always sadness & such. Oftentimes it manifests as addictive behaviors, or thoughts that loop over and over. This sounds like what your wife is experiencing. You need to get over your ignorance of the subject. (Tom Cruise is an ignorant assclown when he pontificates about things he knows nothing about.) Your wife has a physical injury that is internal, and that affects her in myriad ways. The drugs are necessary - diet and meditation are great, but insufficient. Its just like if you broke your leg. Its not absolutely essential that you get your leg set, unless of course you want to walk upright without struggle. If you tell her to choose between her health and you, anybody in their right mind will prompt her to save herself first.