Soon KC'll have a stable of playmates salted around the world. He just gettin started with his first pair. Hell, players like KC been on this like a duck on a junebug since smart phones. Years ago you may recall the US soccer goalie that selfied her kootch and it ended up all over the internet looking just like star goalie kootch should be expected to look. you think that was the first and only for her? You think she's atypical? Please. Tip of the iceberg. Dating sites are for 'dating' too (definition below).
You are a man out of time thinking that it is great getting DMs like that. It is not, it is old hat, because back before there was texting, this same sort of thing went on with the phone, with voice. As you said, you were married for what, two decades? I don't think you are going to like what you are getting into. Just a guess.
The only one? C'mon, step it up! Work in pairs, minimum. Slacker! Get that stable and a bullpen. "Hey Cherry, I got another call I gotta take then I got some stuff to do, hit me tomorrow." Then go get that vacant KC II slot filled, so to speak, lol.