I know and her looks are starting to fade at 43, I still look 35 ish, young looking genes. I need to make my play while I can still hit something young. In a few years I will be stuck with hags that have 2 kids and want me to pay their college, forget that.
Sorry, I missed the paragraph in my citizenship rule book where it says I am obligated to breed. Can you point me to the right page? Also, have you ever heard of overpopulation??? There are plenty of other people who will take care of your share of the reproducing process... P.S.: Duggar family motto: We did it so you don't have to...
Man this is some thread with I hope honesty. It is so hard to advise a guy ...but I hate to actually agree with all the negative guys here...what I will add is a slightly different twist. First mine is an insane control freak, demanding, controlling, kid centric, yadyada yada..also if I did not have money I would not be shocked if things quickly fell apart. But my wife is pretty good looking, not an ounce of fat...and educated..so our side demands a lot too....but here is where I differed with some of you guys ..I gave in completely to her demands and critiques...since I did that things got a lot better and liveable....I have no idea how long i can keep my mouth shut on idiotic needs, etc but so far its been near 20 yrs with teen kids. Call me a wuss but I gave in...I still have fun..boating , buddy stuff but I yes dear a lot and I live happier...sorry tough guys.
Sounds like it is working for ya'. My step-son recently got married and my advice to him was" if she is worth it, do what she says". Obviously that requires her to do her part, also. But hey in 20 years, it could all go up in a puff of smoke. After all, marriage is just a big "crap shoot".
you know with the right girl.. thats exactly the right thing to do in my opinion.. but what do i know.. i give girls the biggest run around of all time.. i had the one i'm hanging out with just say to me... "your going to have to make it up to me for that shorts comment" cause i told her that the hipster shorts she had on were gay. so i said to her.. what do you want me to say something funnier about them? i can do that hahah
look at her mother and ask if you were her age and had 20 yrs of marriage under your belt,would you want 20 more,that's most likely her 20 yrs from now
if you got all Quant on marriage no one would do it.. its a subject thing.. hard to quantify.. at least thats what people tell me that are happily married.. that is rare