I don't get it. Most of you guys see marriage as a business proposition, a trade: I bring this, you bring that. It will never work this way, for the simple reason that marriage is a personal, emotional RELATIONSHIP! Do you even know what that means? And the main purpose of marriage is to build a FAMILY. So, before getting married, ask yourselves these questions: What is a relationship? What is a family? Does my partner and I want any of these things? Or do I just want a good deal and have sex anytime I want? And again: since most of you complain that "quality women" are hard to find, take a long, hard look at yourselves and then ask: Am I a "quality man" or just a walking dildo like 90% out there? What does it mean being a man, a REAL MAN? Start answering those, and "quality women" will come your way.
"By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher." --Socrates
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Ok I've solved the whole marriage issue. Get married if you meet someone who meets all these criteria: i) between the age of consent and 29 years of age, and younger than yourself ii) at least 9/10 in looks, and with the type of looks that will age fairly well iii) good in bed and enjoys sex iv) she's in love with you, more so than you are with her v) bisexual and willing to have threesomes with other women vi) has a track record and instincts favouring fidelity & loyalty vii) generally defers to you on important matters viii) is interesting and intelligent ix) has good DNA/genetics that will provide good offspring x) has no kids and never been in love with a man before xi) doesn't nag, cause drama, embarrass you etc xii) has no addictions or bad habits like high spending, drugs, gambling etc xiii) will sign a prenup
this is the primary problem with many today.........sociopathic tendencies. Some are masters at concealing it, much as the "black mamba" hides in the grass waiting to strike. The" poon tang" comes at a very high price.
once you marry her all this goes poof... gone. *add in a kid, two or three... *her mother... *her needs to be a woman after having a family, not just a mother ... *her constant , you dont understand me... *her constant, you never listen to me .... *she becomes too busy to clean a house, get a maid... *her mother ... *she gets the high end car you get the van ... *too busy to cook ... *she is involved in all town social events , has no time to take kids to sports... *her mother ... *she better have been in love before or she will be banging everyone ... *eventually every sound from her mouth will be nagging ... * just keep the wallet open at all times for her, much easier ... *her constant, you never listen to me .... *her constant , you dont understand me... *oh, btw... did I mention her mother ....
Her mother will be on another continent, and will be reasonably MILFy and a classy older broad anyway - if she doesn't age like Sophia Loren and give you a wink or two then forget about her daughter. Kids get handled by nannies - and you put them off until she is in her 30s, so you can enjoy 10-15 years of prime unspoiled pussy. Low drama women don't bitch and whine, they refill your shot glass and light your cigar while displaying ample amounts of stockinged leg and cleavage. Hire domestic help, what lunatic man would have his woman doing shitty domestic work? Suitable women prefer to be driven fast in an exotic sports car by a real man, they don't drive themselves or expect you to potter about in a beater. Restaurants are for fine dining, home cooking is for eating your woman's food off her naked body. Marry an introvert, not a social butterfly. Women bond best with their first real love, not the guy taking sloppy seconds or thirds. Never date a nagger. Lay down the law any time a woman shit tests you. Women don't need to be listened to or understood, they need to be fucked good and feel that their guy is a real man not a wimp or loser. Act right and you'll get few if any complaints. Waiting until you are 40+ helps.