After seeing 'the truth' come out of many well known personalities, I think it is stupid to expect everybody to be monogamous. Reality is that in some people monogamy goes against their deepest human instinct, and the more this natural instinct is repressed, the more it will want to manifest itself. I am all for monogamy when it makes sense for the people involved. Lying about true feelings will only make the person(s) very unhappy. Is monogamy the underlying reason why we have so many divorces in society. I would venture to say that is a big possibility. I think monogamy should be discussed openly and treated as what it is, only a choice, that is not good or bad per se, just a choice.