I'm an across and up kind of guy, much better to have a GF with an even better memory and who can do anything without your help. A couple of years back my girlfriend came home with a pile of papers. She had just bought an appartment off plan. Now she had been planning this before we met but we had been dating for six months and she had never dragged me into it at all. It was then I knew, this one was a keeper Smart women rock.