Is your lifestyle getting in the way of your success?

Discussion in 'Trading' started by Apbideas, Mar 5, 2016.

  1. Apbideas

    Apbideas

    Thanks for the feedback. I'd be ecstatic if I can manage a 0% return in a bear market year and I'm working hard to make sure that is exactly what happens but who knows what will actually happen when it goes down. Hedges are never as linear as they appear to be so I'm always expecting the unexpected.
     
    #21     Mar 6, 2016
  2. destriero

    destriero

    Well then wtf are you doing on a trading site?
     
    #22     Mar 6, 2016
  3. Looking for attention?
     
    #23     Mar 6, 2016
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  4. Apbideas

    Apbideas

    I'd be happy to share more specifics about my process. In fact, that's why I signed up here in the first place to help others especially since this board helped me early on when I knew very little about investing or trading. Take a look at my Journal thread "APBideas" which will give you a bit of a feel for what I'm about and then message me or reply to the thread and I'll answer as best I can.

    I'll warn you though...the way I make money is so boring and takes a tremendous amount of patience. I invest mainly in index funds and reserve only 10% of my capital for special situations. My primary edge is coming up with awesome ways to save money and then using those savings to create extra return in the market. I wish that I had the chops like some here to go and trade ES futures with guns blazing but thats just not me and I'd only end up losing everything if I invested that way.
     
    #24     Mar 6, 2016
  5. Hoorah...love participants.
    Yes sir, you have much more patience than I. I have utmost fear of investing long term as I have grown older and have watched how government authorities have taken more and more of our freedom from us. This is done slowly, but gradually that it is hard to notice.
    I, myself, will never invest long term even if a company has a no brainer...I do not trust.

    Na zdrowie,
    Tim
     
    #25     Mar 6, 2016
  6. destriero

    destriero


    What is the point of "sharing your experience" as a passive investor in index funds? Your edge is in saving monies? Then head over to retailmenot.com
     
    #26     Mar 6, 2016
  7. Apbideas

    Apbideas

    I just wanted to present an alternative perspective that challenges what trading and making money is supposed to be...that and being guilty of some more humblebrag.
     
    #27     Mar 6, 2016
  8. pinfire

    pinfire

    As we know we want more and more luxurious life style trading can fulfill our dreams only when we do it as market wants from us. We cannot impose our will on market because it will not change we have to change our strategy to work her . Then we can meet all our targets.
     
    #28     Mar 7, 2016
  9. deaddog

    deaddog

    When you don't have money you look at it in terms of the things you can buy with it.

    When you have money you realize the things it can't buy.
     
    #29     Mar 12, 2016
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  10. MarkBrown

    MarkBrown

    i think you curse yourself when you humblebrag. i did it and it hurt me badly because my focus changed from trading to lambo's and houses. i was much more profitable in a rented duplex than in a office at the cme building. many big guys have gone thru this, most buy restaurants and bars then go broke.

    so yes there is a direct correlation between lifestyle and keeping it. live big lose big. but if your lucky enough to have used your brain to make the money and it wasn't luck. you can always get disciplined and back in the game you go learning from your mistakes is what it's all about.
     
    #30     Mar 12, 2016
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