Was the girl i was with last night kinky? She sprayed me with mace while we were having sex. I like surprising my dates. I hide behind their car wearing a ski mask and yell out, " you better do everything i say". Its a cheap date and romantic at the same time.
That's a nice approach, (and I think I may have used it) but here's another: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfkKkvWEPMo