Is it Wise For a Trader to Move to Los Angeles for a Girl?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by jinxu, Jun 29, 2013.

  1. hahahahaha
    Is that you who few months ago were posting about your issues with a girl you wanted to marry?

    Looks like some pimp also read the thread and passed your details around!

    My advice : why not meet her brothers/sisters and cousins first ?
    They might have some VERY interesting facts for you.
    Not all "escorts" - including in Hollywood - advertise they are hookers. I wonder why.lol.

    Better find out early on if you are taking the "poor house" fast lane.
    Now should this be the poor house fast lane, then you can decide with all the facts , and enjoy it while knowing what your final costs are going to be. :cool:
     
    #21     Jun 30, 2013
  2. lwlee

    lwlee

    Dude, this is a high risk, maybe high reward opportunity. Reason I'm doubtful is cuz she's young and living the hollywood lifestyle. She's prob surrounded by hot, young guys. If she's high maintenance and you are regular looking, you might be swimming against a fast current. But I understand, it might be fun just getting some, who knows if she happens to be the one, even better.

    If the temptation is too strong, just consider it a 6mos or even a year vacation where you move out there and see how it goes. West coast has its advantages, if you trade equities, you have to get up earlier but you have more of the day to spend with her. This might be a big selling point.

    Another thing is LA is poker central. Man I would do it just cuz of the early trading and poker but if I'm getting some as well. Damn, like I'm in a dream. :D
     
    #22     Jun 30, 2013

  3. Pawnee Proverb: "White Man dog to woman"
     
    #23     Jun 30, 2013
  4. Why not? If it doesn't work out, move back home.

    surf
     
    #24     Jun 30, 2013
  5. will he have any money left then to afford the travel fare
    if she did hid some "details" ? It will be her real job to take as
    much as she can ( cars, properties, ....)
    for the end benefits of her pimp, or "daddy".
     
    #25     Jun 30, 2013
  6. True, but no risk, no reward. Only he knows for sure if she is the one, if she is, GO FOR IT.
     
    #26     Jun 30, 2013
  7. The most important relationship for an adult life is the intimate one.
    I'll say : check out first. Nothing to lose to meet her cousin or sister or brother first. It is not a race to the altar: take your time, get to know her well, if she is the one it will happen. Mistakes on this department can destroy a man.
     
    #27     Jun 30, 2013
  8. NEVER chase a woman.
     
    #28     Jun 30, 2013
  9. dtan1e

    dtan1e

    i been thru' a similar relationship recently also with a 22 yr old. it actually depends on what you want out of the relationship and a whole range of other factors, not least, how old are you, don't take early impressions as face value, especially when comes to women, since you mentioned hot, chances r it means you may not be thinking straight since the "in love" phase last less than a year, however, being a trader, sure, nothing to lose, except perhaps your bank balance be a lot lighter when you leave, else, if it works out, nice!
     
    #29     Jun 30, 2013
  10. Risk/Reward is heavily skewed in her favor. US divorce statistics prove it.
     
    #30     Jun 30, 2013