I agree with what you said entirely, but I guess it's just human nature... I think it takes some getting used to, and since I'm only strating out, there is hope for me yet My trading did have a plan, and it worked in that situation even better than it was supposed to. But then the reference point kind of switched to "what could have been". Anyway, thanks again for all your feedback guys. I think it's just a matter of practice in the end.
Take a look at latest news in equity market. I don`t want to start with enronism back again, but this is the answer.
I personally find it helpful to think that the party on the other side doesn't need this money as much (e.g. an MM or the specialist ) or would not use it for a cause as worthy as what I hope to use it for in the end... Or I think that that person still made/will make some money on the trade, just a bit less then they could have had they not shared it with me - that way it becomes a win-win in a way.