Pointy is your black sister a coon? Or does she sensibly bar you from talking about politics when around her and is a Democrat really?
No, it all depends on how you say it. Like dancing in a black club, don't do it unless you can freaking dance, can dance? all good. If you say it in the right context it is fine. I get called "the big white nigger" all the time when I visit family in New Orleans, friends are creole. I have shouted the N-word across the neighborhood in black areas and nobody cared. Fear is the mind killer. (and the body killer if you can't dance).
I really have. Put it another way, say naturally and MEAN IT. Conviction is the key. Don't sound like you are trying to get away with saying... OMG... the "N" word. (Moved post down as makes more sense)
I had plenty of practice calling uppity guys kaffers in Africa. Quite a lot worse actually but once the shock passes and you give them the "I can be what you think I am, or what I really am" chat, all good.
Not with an "er" at the end. An "a" maybe.... and that would be severely pushing it. Or you were in Africa... all bets off there. But you sure as hell weren't in the continental 48. I'd love to see a 300# 6-5 white guy walk down S. Michigan shouting "ni**er". Didn't Bruce Willis try that in a movie? http://www.foxforcefivenews.com/pew...er-copying-die-hard-3-villains-racist-scheme/
But he was trying to get away with saying it. When a little kid does that thing where they keep doing something naughty while looking at you it is cute. When an adult does the same they get slapped down as they should. I'm not saying talk black, that is stupid just you can say "nigger", that spelling, if it is smooth. You can say ANYTHING if you say it with some charisma.
Maybe I should start a class teaching white American men how to be men. Oh wait, there are already ten thousand of them in the market already.
Nobody would consider an impotent 300+ pound America-hating liar like you -- who's such a loser that he spends all his time posting about our politics from Colombia -- much of a man. But at least you do have one "accomplishment" you can be proud of, so wear your shirt with pride, fatboy!