im 60 my gf is 23 — got tips? should i marry her

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by KCalhoun, Sep 17, 2024.

  1. Cabin1111

    Cabin1111

    Honeymoon in Japan...Yes??

    Rethink everything you have done...
     
    #441     Feb 22, 2025
  2. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    nah honeymoon in harlem more like it
    mo betta blues

    didnt happen this time, again! but it cuz she said alot of people on both sides of her family domnt approve of us bc of age difference.... well fk em shes in her twenties

    so tryin again next week
     
    #442     Feb 23, 2025
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  3. elderado

    elderado

    Dude, why are you getting married at all? Is there something you need to prove?

    She's just a kid. Want to have another divorce in the next few years?

    Just enjoy the time you are spending together. Know that her family is likely not approving ONLY because of the age difference, there are probably MANY other factors as well.

    Don't force the marriage issue. It will be a lot easier for her to let you go in the future. You want her to be happy, right?
     
    #443     Feb 23, 2025
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  4. I AM SHOCKED!!!!!!!!!!
     
    #444     Feb 23, 2025
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  5. Another episode of 900 Day Fiancé!
     
    #445     Feb 23, 2025
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  6. ph1l

    ph1l

    If I didn't know better, I'd guess "a lot of people" means one person (her), and she just doesn't want to marry you (what would her other customers/boyfriends think if word got out?;)).

    If you really want to marry her, tell her you have been lying all along and are really 80 years old. Then she will think you will die soon, and she would be your sole heir.:D
     
    #446     Feb 23, 2025
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  7. vztrdr

    vztrdr

    Personally, I don't think she's all that hot. For real. You can land better KC. Either way... keep us posted. :thumbsup:

     
    #447     Feb 23, 2025
  8. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    wel it's fun bc she's loco and im along for the ride, kinda thing... current adventura plans are to move to her moms big house in colorado and the 3 of us be together.. i'm like ok sure ... very unstable time but also a thril thats unpredictable..she agreed to a prenup. Ovreall shes a sweet young hot lady who likes me. I don't know why, it's not like I'm super-rich. She does initiate a lot so I guess she likes that part. She said in answer to why be w old guy "young men are piogs; yiou have experience in a long term relationshipo so you know wnat it's like".,.. um ok

    and youre right re not hot, she's only a 4-5/10 face, but her legs and body rocks lol.. and her lips are big and that's good for.. Mainly she's a sweety who's fun to be with. we never notice an age difference, we get along great
     
    #448     Feb 23, 2025
  9. KCalhoun

    KCalhoun

    literally lol thx
     
    #449     Feb 23, 2025
  10. vztrdr

    vztrdr

    No argument there.

    One thing you've never touched on... how's the mental connection? The back and forward stuff? No way she's on your level there right? But that's to be expected. If what she has to offer floats your boat... which it could very well do because my guess is she's street smart af and you're not... no insult intended there... but if she does bring something to the table there you find attractive... well... keep trying. Just pre-nup the plan.
     
    #450     Feb 23, 2025