hey thanks thanks for the kind words and great advice especially from theDawnv your points are very well taken and genuinely appreciate the kind sentiment behind it. There are still some unanswered questions but so far things seem to be working out very well. Plan are supposed to go to Colorado next weekend state of mothers house for a while that should be fine because I miss Colorado. That’s especially good point regarding children because some women just trying to have a kid and then dump a man and get child support for life and I ain’t gonna go out like that ! looks like a Costco size box of magnums and KY is in my future sincerely thanks and some spermicidal cream lol actually it was me who pushes for marriage because it was good fortune attracting beautiful young woman. Advice Needed, bros big red flag she finally revealed, shes BPD/bipolar and spent 2 years homeless, hooked up with some black boyfriend the loved who cheated on her. then she had a kid now 1 1/2 yrs old some 19yo white guy she broke up with. its beyond time i dump her right? Thank goodness I went with my big head and still have not been Intimate With her. On freaking believable, I average about a week or two most second or third date before they’re looking at the ceiling and I’m buying breakfasft. i pdemanded she hiv/std tesf and she agreed. I never thought I would date homeless person and she said she kept it from me because she knew that would probably be my reaction I have nothing so much people times it’s not their fault but this is very big but is that she stayed that way for two years and did not claim up and get help or get a job and claim out of it why is that? She does some fancy electronic cigarette type things with tobacco but she swears she doesn’t drink other drugs. but when it comes to a relationship I think is homeless people much like dogs and shelters where they’re broken and they’re bad tempered and there’s a lot going on in their minds and make them completely unsuitable and screwed up for relationship. know if it was me what are you doing with her that’s a different class person and your above it. if she was bitchy middle aged it would be easy decision to Ditch the bitch but damn she looks like this and she’s totally sweet the cynic in me sez the guy pimped her ass out and were druggies. glad af i didnt bareback that lol the big surprise? she claims to not have a working psy (then howd she have a kid?) bc medical condition mrkn
Ken, You've reached a point at which you need "legal guardianship". I recommend you and a friend (not the woman you're obsessed with) go see a lawyer because you're not in a healthy relationship and you seem very confused about "what she is". Also, why are you showing pictures of someone in an intimate setting and not pictures of someone out in public and interacting with the public??? Get professional legal help because your decisions are not well and you're in no condition to be taking care of someone while displaying at an online discussion forum you're not able to take care of yourself. wrbtrader
There is a big picture to this. Someone is getting set up. It is very unlikely it is the good kind of setup. You may or may not be the primary target. I have experience in this as I've been under heavy surveillance for years with multiple, unsolicited prostitutes approaching me. Some entity has been trying to gain leverage over me as they seem to believe I am a social media influencer whose political beliefs conflicts with theirs. Other ET members have been targeted, it seems. Possibly including Jem, perhaps among others. There are several ways this can play out. Most of which are at least, very detrimental to your financial, and perhaps your mental health. Regardless, in my semi-informed opinion, you do not want to cross state lines with her. You do not want to engage in any other relationships until you work out what you are up against. For a sampling of what can go wrong with "Relationships" check out GWB's posts that highlight various sexually related scandals involving politicians, select media personalities, and others. The rest of my post will be an inline commentary of your points, below. Your post has been reformatted to facilitate commentary. QUOTE="KCalhoun, post: 6062422, member: 51524"] View attachment 355416 View attachment 355417 hey thanks thanks for the kind words and great advice especially from theDawnv your points are very well taken and genuinely appreciate the kind sentiment behind it. I feel most here on ET are genuinely hoping for things to work out well for you. Even those who are often, or even always, critical of you. The silent ones may be the most dangerous, however. There are still some unanswered questions but so far things seem to be working out very well. Plan are supposed to go to Colorado next weekend state of mothers house for a while that should be fine because I miss Colorado. Again, do not introduce a questionable person to your sphere of influence. Anything they may do is on you. That’s especially good point regarding children because some women just trying to have a kid and then dump a man and get child support for life and I ain’t gonna go out like that ! While I'm pretty far from being the best for giving out relationship advice, there needs to be a symmetry to a relationship involving a wide disparity in ages. A mother looking for a safe haven for her young child can bring the equation back in balance. There are others, that don't risk an adverse outcome, but they are more of a temporary nature. There are statistics on successful long term relationships versus age differences. More than just a couple of years, and the statistics get real ugly, real fast. looks like a Costco size box of magnums and KY is in my future sincerely thanks and some spermicidal cream lol My go to is self-stimulation! The ultimate in risk management! Grin! actually it was me who pushes for marriage because it was good fortune attracting beautiful young woman. How does the song go... "... make a ugly woman your wife and be happy for the rest of your life"? Since we are above 30 years old, is it not better for us to start asking, "Not what woman can do for us, but what we can do for A woman"? A form of civic duty. Social responsibility, at least on a micro level. Advice Needed, bros big red flag she finally revealed, shes BPD/bipolar and spent 2 years homeless, hooked up with some black boyfriend the loved who cheated on her. then she had a kid now 1 1/2 yrs old some 19yo white guy she broke up with. In my limited experience, woman will do an "Honest information dump" very early on, usually same day of initial meeting, of what their situation is and they are looking for. For example, recently an attractive female bank manager told me the details of her three children in response to my general personal question to her. Her body language indicated strong engagement in the conversation, understating a bit. The point is, if someone is not forthcoming with relevant information in a timely manner, they likely have a "Consciousness of guilt". This can range from believing they are unworthy to having a hidden agenda. its beyond time i dump her right? Yes. It is called management of undefined risk. Thank goodness I went with my big head and still have not been Intimate With her. On freaking believable, I average about a week or two most second or third date before they’re looking at the ceiling and I’m buying breakfasft. i pdemanded she hiv/std tesf and she agreed. It does appear you are now considering risks, but seem to be looking for justification for taking a leap. Devil versus angel? No, little guy versus big guy. Er, Little head versus big head. I never thought I would date homeless person and she said she kept it from me because she knew that would probably be my reaction I have nothing so much people times it’s not their fault but this is very big but is that she stayed that way for two years and did not claim up and get help or get a job and claim out of it why is that? The fact-set surrounding homelessness is most likely not supportive of establishing a relationship. Often, analyzing the timeline of significant events in her life will reveal answers, or at least questions to ask. Then again, if you have to ask... She does some fancy electronic cigarette type things with tobacco but she swears she doesn’t drink other drugs. but when it comes to a relationship I think is homeless people much like dogs and shelters where they’re broken and they’re bad tempered and there’s a lot going on in their minds and make them completely unsuitable and screwed up for relationship. You are absolutely correct. Well, absolutely correct 80% of the time, as certain statistics show, apparently. Some of the 20% of homeless that do break out have gone on to change the world, however. Are you looking for a project? Are you qualified to do a project? Answer honestly. Did you just think of Pu tang? Wink. know if it was me what are you doing with her that’s a different class person and your above it. if she was bitchy middle aged it would be easy decision to Ditch the bitch but damn she looks like this and she’s totally sweet Do you have a sense of how woman perceive you? Are you sure? What a woman would say about you? What a woman might say about you in a court of law? What a woman, known for dishonesty, might say about you in a court of law? Manage your undefined risk. For you. For us on ET. the cynic in me sez the guy pimped her ass out and were druggies. glad af i didnt bareback that lol Often, the first answer, the first assessment, is the correct one. the big surprise? she claims to not have a working psy (then howd she have a kid?) bc medical condition mrkn[/QUOTE Another question to consider on future potential relationships is how committed is your partner likely to be? Are they potentially corruptible? That is, vulnerable to an outside influence to work against your interests? I am leading towards where to look and what attributes lend itself to successful long term relationships, if that is what you are truly looking for. I see your post was edited 59 minutes after, but not for spelling or grammar, apparently. Might be some insight to be gained from that, perhaps. Best wishes to you, your big head, and your little head!
I am afraid Ken is gonna get clipped if he keeps gravitating towards unpredictable companions. Maybe it’s time for Ken to reel it in and find a nice church lady?
I am going to ask the Lord to forgive some of Ken's sins in advance to give him a little extra room to maneuver with the church lady. I am a giver as always.
I'm thinking an established woman actively engaged in her community in a positive way. Almost certainly older than the 20 or 30 somethings, but likely a more stable, safer choice. The question is, would Ken feel he could hold up his end?
You're an idiot. If you had life experience, you could help clear her up. But you do not, so you both will be failures. Just like you and your wife you are separated from. You are poison to Las Vegas.