Not a surprise at all, Ken, you aren't the catch you think you are so a very good target for these schemes. The mother wants to participate angle was kind of obvious. And I don't believe I'm wrong that she's in her 30s not 23. If she's 23 she's lived a rough life.
I have to laugh at all you guys that were egging Ken on when he posted all this stuff. Seriously, he needs to grow up and stop acting like he's 18-22 first time out on his own ready to party hard. Could this woman have been legit and into him ? Sure, just unlikely, and based on the pics I doubt she's 22 or 23 she looks at least 30 imo. A narcissist craves attention but woman can pick up on that and these relationships are often a battle of two parties trying to outdo themselves on what they can get out of the relationship. When it gets extreme ( eg the mom wants in on the action ), that's a massive red flag.