I'm glad I'm past the novelty of dating women, it's tiring and emotional, takes up lots of energy. After my first marriage breakup, was single for 23 years and went on a type dating bonking spree. Glad its all over. Strangely, used a lot of that time wanting to be left alone so I could trade in peace. Sounds like a contradiction, it was a battle of two, one against the other, go dating then wanna be left alone. My wife and I both trade, so we like our space, it's a good arrangement. I met my wife via rsvp site, I advertised that trading was my hobby. She's asian and I was looking for that too, we're about the same age.
I was dating prior to my current wife a wealthy Malaysian woman, we had lots of adventures, many trips away, she was small, cute, attractive, extrovert, good cook, good...... hmmmm I won't go there.....
If she is ok with signing the pre nup then its the Will and the Insurance..You are going to need to learn to sleep with one eye open.
One has to question the judgement of any woman who wants to hitch their life to this loser. And I say loser because he's a narcissist who views his relationships on a transactional basis mostly ( nowhere does he mention love or what he can do for the other party it's all about what he can get out of it himself ). I suppose it's only natural if you approach life in this way that you may meet someone similar who has their own plan on how the transaction will work.