I m looking for a mentor

Discussion in 'Hook Up' started by Doncharles2020, Apr 8, 2020.

  1. You can look for a master, but as the saying goes...

    "when the student is ready....the master will appear."

    First I read a lot. I tried to find the best economists and read about economics, it's important.

    I read (and watched video lectures/interviews) guys like Shiller, Krugman, Bernanke, Friedman, Kaynes, Smith, Hayek, Mises, etc.

    Futures Magazine
    The Economist
    Wall Street Journal
    New York Times
    Financial Times
    Investing.com
    SeekingAlpha.com
    Zerohedge (just 'cuz it's interesting, or used to be)

    Really made sure to study monetary theory, banking - Yellen, Friedman, Volcker, Bernanke...

    I had to understand how the yield curve, FOMC, Fed funds target, GDP, unemployment, and inflation all work together. That took a long time.

    This is just a side project (gives you a useful background).***

    Then you can learn all about volatility, margin mechanics, risk modeling, hedging... and on and on.

    The actual (advanced) trading techniques are secretive and hidden behind NDA's, non-compete agreements, 'trade secrets' and vigorously protected "proprietary information."

    Pro traders don't talk much.

    There's a lot of regulations from FINRA, the SEC and CFTC. The investment banks, prop firms, and market making firms are competitive. They even poach each others' talent. They like ivy league types.

    Frank Partnoy writes some good books about the street (great books).

    The best (and hardest) thing to know is market structure and financial engineering. But, that requires that you're good at mathematics.

    Obviously, there's an easy way to learn how to trade and a hard way. I kind of like the hard way, personally.
     
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    #21     Apr 9, 2020
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  2. ionone

    ionone

    i'll mentor you

    DON'T TRADE REAL MONEY until you're good on demo for at least 1 year

    you're welcome
     
    #22     Apr 9, 2020
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  3. You are right about this. Atleast you save your cash until you get it right
     
    #23     Apr 9, 2020
  4. FrankInLa

    FrankInLa

    Information and knowledge can even be self-learned. No need for a mentor for that. A mentor's true value is the insights that textbooks don't teach. And when a mentor does not have the ability to succeed in trading then there is little of value that such a person can pass on to his student that such student can't learn himself. I say that because mental capacity, judgment skills, psychological awareness, and the right amount and timing of fear and tenacity are all skills that cant be acquired through reading or watching instructional material.

     
    #24     Apr 9, 2020
  5. FrankInLa

    FrankInLa

    I am willing to teach for free, but I choose the person very carefully. I look someone who can be proud and arrogant at the right time and defend his turf, given he can confidently back it up with solid knowledge. At other times I look for a humble, broken spirit, someone who can constantly admit the possibility he might be wrong. Someone who has an unquenched thirst to learn and the balls to ask tough and sometimes even embarrassing questions. Most above all, a hard worker. Someone you teach something and the next morning you notice that such person really pondered over the material of the previous day. Enough IQ to comprehend intermediate math and probability theory. Very hard to find a mentor who looks for students like this. Even harder for a mentor of this type to find the right student. And why I would be willing to do this gig for free for the right person? Because a) I wanna pass on something that took me a long time and something I am proud to have achieved and b) to answer the ever-repeating question to myself: Can I teach someone to become a profitable trader.

    By the way, the absolute minimum requirement of such a student would be that he was seeking a mentor completely prepared with all the knowledge that can be attained by reading or watching content on one's own clock. Someone who is wondering whether futures or stocks or currencies are better instruments to trade are frankly speaking a waste of time, at least my time. Not saying they are a waste as a human being but they are just not ready to be taught.

     
    #25     Apr 9, 2020
  6. volpri

    volpri

    So, there you go DonCharles. Maybe FrankInLa will be your “huckleberry” and for free at that. First you need to determine just where he is at: in LA in Ca, in LA as in Louisiana, or in LA as in lower Alabama. Then buy a kayak and start across the pond to begin receiving your free mentoring sessions. See, no flights from Europe. Corona you know messed up flights...or was it Trump that messed them up?.?? ...As you travel in your kayak you can read a few books on trading. If a storm comes up and your kayak turns over just blame Trump. Blame the storm on Trump and blame the unstable Kayak on Trump. It will help you psychologically to blame Mr T for EVERYTHING.

    If all this is too much you could just read journals on ET. Might learn something...good..or bad..or ugly.
     
    #26     Apr 9, 2020
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  7. FrankInLa

    FrankInLa

    learn as in acquiring knowledge? On ET? Chuckle chuckle...

     
    #27     Apr 9, 2020
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  8. easymon1

    easymon1

    1) Hey, how about this. Offer to run Stats for a trader using The System they use in their Written Trading Plan.
    The Mentor will post to you a dated Written Trading Plan and timely updates.
    You avail yourself to a Complete Trading Rig H-ware, S-ware platforms, datafeeds, ...deemed by the Mentor functionally identical to the system the Mentor uses and agree to fine tune in a timely fashion as discrepancies emerge.
    You provide to the Mentor on a timely basis Chart images marked up, Reports from Spreadsheets crafted by the Mentor containing cells for datapoints made identifiable by the Written Trading Plan.
    You and the Mentor agree on Scheduled Milestones and Mutual Progress Reports on The Great Journey.
    2) Use Two Mentors, each unbeknownst to the other, More if you have that much time and mental bandwidth.
    3) Use the above setup leveraged by concepts espoused by Ferriss in "Four Hour Workweek"
    4) Roll in the Dough.
    5) Send easymon 7% for good karma.
    6) Persuant to step 4 above, Always get a Prenup, said prenup videotaped by your seasoned battletested successful Lawyer.
    7) Tell us how you do.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_4-Hour_Workweek
     
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    #28     Apr 9, 2020

  9. yes agreed BUT with the endless amount of info out there one would not know where to start,, sure you will get there eventually and learn on your own as i have but having someone once again doesn't have to be the most successful can at least accelerate your process, the process of LEARNING, not profitability because profitability only your self can achieve, i see it like swimming, i can teach you the strokes and moves,, it will help you get there faster than learning on your own, but in no shape or form you will be a good swimmer till you in the water,,, see there is 4 strokes in swimming,,, for example, knowing which is the most common for example can accelerate someones whos total newb to it all
     
    #29     Apr 9, 2020
  10. Handle123

    Handle123

    Totally agree, with the exception of doing it for free, found out long ago, if people do not have "game", they less likely listen. Too many believe if someone doing it for free, must not be any good. So much down and rest at 50% of their new profits each month, this way student is not over trading cause too much in their accounts, and when you teach, if you still doing manually, you are going to miss setups or change orders cause you teaching a student live sometime during the day, not everyday but couple each week. Almost every student will at some point try to teach the teacher of what they know which is often right at the beginning, have to "nip that at the bud", if that was working, they would not be losing.

    I often took quirky people and often took people I did not like initially, didn't want to spend 2 years with someone I liked from beginning. I have my own problems in life and generally do not like people period, so anyone I like from get go, I would see they have problems like me. Yea, I know most people don't understand, that's life.

    Half times I would travel to where they lived and chat for 5-6 hours, see if I wanted to spend next 2 years with them, sometimes trade in front of them, and teach or cram into them trading concepts, to see how much they able to retain in short time. Sometimes every hour they get to pick a new symbol for me to trade, same basic concepts, show them what rules have to be changed for protective stops and targets, but chart reading does not change.

    I not take anyone who was brand new, I had good amount of patience, but someone new who lacks ability to read something on charts, trend, how to put in orders, don't have enough patience to go over basics. I liked the person who lost 6 figures or more, family man/woman, have enough funds to live as very difficult to work and trade. I needed them to have fears of the market. I wanted them to not trust themselves and rely on what I taught, and if they found new patterns, they knew to test first before coming to me, am not going to be doing their homework. Homework everyday, their charts take me 2 hours to correct, as they get better, have to be done less. I never gave them my trading plan, they would never understand it. I didn't want to teach them a system but how to trade, how to adapt to changing volatility, having more than one symbol to trade, doesn't matter whether was stocks, options, futures symbols, timeframes, doesn't matter if I didn't know the symbol or they didn't know the symbol, you trade what is before you. They had to have enough IQ to understand risk management, risk to reward theory, and most importantly is able to memorize.

    At some point they realize everything they were doing/thinking was wrong. At end of the 2 years, they have a massive Trading plan with examples of every risk management images, reasons of not taking trades, trade setup, trade management, examples when time to reduce targets or expand, when to hedge by options or legging into spread. At end of 2 years, mentor has learned about the family of the student, making sure student is not cave like, they spend same amount of time with wife and kids as they did behind screen, trader needs to really feel their presence but also family needs support/love of the student.

    From first day, they need to see profitable days real time just from the basics, each week more is added, at some point it becomes overwhelming and slow down till they can memorize, in first week they are sim trading on live data for entire day sessions for 3-4 months then cut back to 4 hours with 2 hours catching up on stat recaps.

    It is huge undertaking for a mentor as well, sometimes one has to express themselves several different ways as student just can't understand some concept. Some can't understand one penny means much down the line when trading more volume, them learning acceptance is very hard as they see where they got stopped out for Breakeven plus one then only to watch trade go their way, can't have both of consistency profits and wild profits/losses, best to go after smooth equity curve so to add volume, but smooth equity curve adds to one's mental thoughts they are getting good, reversing thoughts no one can do this mentality, at some point they sim trading 19 of 20 days, once done for few months, they should be ready to do real time, make so tough to get to this stage, they have to be able to compete within their 2 ears.

    And no, not every student achieves 19 of 20, but they have to be able to do so in 4 months or less or they wasting time. And after 2 years, they are prepared for anything. And some after 2 years quits totally, it simple not what they thought life be like.

    And no, refuse to take on any more, at my age am losing knowledge, don't have patience and bad back, simple don't like training people as much as 25 years ago and have other logs in the fire for new challenges. Trading is the same almost all the time now, even with huge move down recently, have seen it before 3-4 times, for my own trading, know the answers before the question, time to go off and do something else.
     
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