I blew up , feels so bad

Discussion in 'Psychology' started by tickmagnet, Feb 15, 2009.

  1. c4ytan

    c4ytan

    To whoever it is who lost money trading... consider it a blessing you lost money trading and just charge it to tuition. The best lesson the market can ever give you is the knowledge that you're not invincible and to respect the market. Now go back, review your trades and examine why you lost the money you lost and start learning from them. If you need some inspiration, read Jesse Livermore's "Reminiscences of a Stock Operator" which is a must-read for any aspiring trader. He got bankrupt several times but he was able to make spectacular comebacks.

    I lost waaayyyy more money than most of you young guys and the sad fact of it is I didn't even lose it trading so I learned nothing from it. I lost a big chunk of it investing in a disaster of a mutual fund i.e. Dodge & Cox, who turns out loaded up on stocks like Fannie Mae, AIG, Wachovia, etc. The one lesson I got from this is that I should start trading and not investing in mutual funds even if that fund has a long history of outperformance. Gee whiz, I didn't need to lose hundreds of thousand of dollars to learn that lesson. So consider yourself lucky to lose a couple of thousand on trades you can actually learn from.
     
    #81     Feb 17, 2009
  2. firscall

    firscall

    Which trading method are you using?
     
    #82     Feb 18, 2009
  3. kandlekid

    kandlekid

    well said. in fact we all need to work more on capital preservation.
     
    #83     Feb 18, 2009
  4. drcha

    drcha

    LOL! (with you, not at you). I took an 80K bath in the early 2000's on the Janus Worldwide fund. Sometime in around 2004, they sent me a very nice letter saying that shareholders would ultimately recover "at least one cent per share." After a long wait, just a few months ago, I received a check for eighteen dollars! I suppose I can buy a couple of burgers, with extra cheese and a Becks, too. Presumably the lawyers are getting the Kobe filets with lobster tails and Chateau Margaux.

    And, good post, c4ytan. The best thing that can happen to anyone is to get burned, if it causes you to analyze your approach and change it for the better.

    Someone please tell me, who said this (Ben Franklin?): "Those things which hurt, instruct."

    Mary
     
    #84     Feb 18, 2009
  5. Mr J

    Mr J

    I'd think a poor business plan is the most likely reason for a failure.
     
    #85     Feb 18, 2009
  6. fluideq

    fluideq

    putz
    1.all good traders have blown up

    2.paying low rates is smart

    3.theirs enough vol in the mkt you can turn this around you didnt go negative treade 1000 shares of high volume cheap stocks
    and put all those nickels dimes and quarters in your pocket

    4.you like the fact that the game is rigged thats why the mkt we have all seen stocks do crazy things rmbs over and over market makers triggering stops to get long and vice versa

    p/e of 500 its all nuts

    grind some cash close flat make 200 a day and 400 a day and multiply tradding days your ok just dazed

    ive seen people take hits the only problem here is that you only lost 20k ive seen millions evaporate and years later those guys are back stronger just remeber how you made money and do it again
     
    #86     Feb 19, 2009
  7. #87     Feb 19, 2009
  8. buybig

    buybig

    #88     Feb 19, 2009
  9. Yes, surprisingly prices have had a bit of a rally.

     
    #89     Feb 19, 2009
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    TM;
    Good nickname i like Toyota trucks, dont know that stock.

    1] More than one way to work it-i like crowded trades .
    2]Exactly, thats wisdom.
    3]Party could true , but you just blame gamed your broker=wrong.
    4]I assume you were shorting DRYS??? If you were long;
    simply wrong in probability %%, DIA, SPY are also bear[50 dma/200dma] trend as DRYS.
    For uptrend/bull market see SLV.......
     
    #90     Feb 20, 2009