Of course not, you're gay as they come. Yeah like believing they're born that way. Well...maybe you were. Gay men don't want to face the fact or have to admit they choose to take it up the ass. So they invent nonsense and dimwitted liberals like you swallow it whole. (no pun intended)
I think you believe it's a matter of choice because you pride yourself in suppressing that choice, despite the evident effort it requires of you.
By "everyone," of course, you refer to yourself and your gay-obsessed "hyper masculine" buddies, i.e.: http://www.answers.com/topic/overcompensation
Once again you read/hear only want conforms to your preconceived notions. I said MOST everyone. most [məʊst] determiner 1. a. a great majority of; nearly all most people like eggs b. (as pronoun; functioning as sing or plural) most of them don't know most of it is finished