Start a band, KC. Drums, bass and a good keyboard player. Better do your pushups. Let's hear how you sound along with this track. Play hotel happy hours, get a room comped, rock and roll. You'll get more trim than Stan the barber.
Women, females, girls....are complete poison in disguise. Avoid them. After the sex/lust or deed completes or wears off....you're stuck caring for this basically shelter cat you have to adopt and take care of. Females, sex, are the devil's work of temptation. Resists. Same thing for cars, clothes, shoes, watches, greed/money, vanity, ego recognition, youth seeking/reversal, fame, etc etc etc.
. It is said that neither men nor women will ever win the war between the sexes.......because... There is too much fraternizing with the enemy.
Don't believe them. They just want your money. Get used to this type of thing if you remain successful. Your "friends" usually just want your lifestyle.