neither. emotions get in the way, trading robotically is much more effective. I've developed this after many years, it doesn't come naturally for the great majority.
I don't think you will get many replies because you are asking people to confess to a weakness. Maybe a poll would work better because people could respond anonymously.
If I'm sitting in the trade for way longer than I expect... like I anticipate it to work in a few minutes and I'm still sitting in the trade an hour later, then after an hour it finally works out, I get very excited and scream shit like "YEAH BITCHES, THOUGHT I WASN'T GOING TO WAIT!"
Also, if I'm in a swing trade and the market gaps in my favor unexpectedly and the trade exceeded my original target, I will hoot and holla, just as I will curse and break shit when it gaps way past my stop, unexpectedly.