Missing the sex is often the reason you get out of a marriage- not stay in it. Once you get out, it is all like an "all you can eat buffet." Wait, probably not the best choice of words but you know what I am saying.
Yep if you don't want to have sex with her anyone, marry her job done. Got to learn to quickly kill of the pretend to like you take it slow, just after money wasters, then total buffet even for a sub average looking guy like me
It has given me what I consider to be the two most important things in life, free time and free will. It is one the very few ways left to live by serving the matrix without being plugged in and subject to the ruthless hierarchy of the matrix.
I think the French rich may have found the perfect solution. Marry your rather plain but loyal housekeeper and she looks after the children while you have mistresses. But as soon as they get greedy or have marriage, women's rights etc. on their little minds then dump that one and on to newer pastures. The pretty ones were made to please and pleasure, not have big ideas.
these are quite personal questions, which imho is immodest to ask, and probably even more immodest to answer especially publicly .... but what a hell people posting video of the sex with their spouse on internet ...
I doubt that anyone here would do that. Most likely it would be a video of them having sex with someone else's spouse.
Leaving aside the preoccupation with sex for a moment, trading has given me considerable freedom to travel and live in interesting places. OTOH it has made it hard to have 'friends from work' because trading is such a solitary occupation. I have maybe 2 or 3 people with whom I can talk trading in earnest. Friends outside of trading are another matter, plenty of them and I have the time to spend with them. It has cost me my former career in engineering but I can't say I miss that worth a damn.
I might add that events like PFG stealing my account a few years back was pretty rough emotionally. (Still waiting for the last of that account, the liquidator is dragging it out as long as possible to maximize his fee.) The effect of that gutted me and it is still having an effect all these years later. The lost opportunity costs are incalculable.