I went on a some dates with this chick, who's kinda cute but i find her slighty chubby (5'5" 125-130 lbs). i'm more into the slim look. The thing is, i've seen photos of her from 3 years ago when she was 22 yrs old and 15-20 pounds lighter, and she was gorgeous! Her face, neck and arms were slim. you can't believe what 15-20 lbs does to a woman's body & face. I personally exercise and eat clean, and i've encouraged her to work out with me but she always has excuses.. i figure she's just lazy. Is she destined to become a fatty by age 30, or should i try to change her? I know, you can't change someone if they don't want to, but having seen what potential hotness i have here, I think i should give it a shot ?